would you work and live with your significant other??

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  1. madcrappie

    madcrappie crazy fish

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    I think thats overkill, especially in a relationship. I know of this couple who started dating while they were working together. it later escalated to living in the same house together, so they were seeing each other 24/7. I just knew eventually that would end... I guess now the guy broke up with the girl, because he couldnt hack it anymore.. they are still living together, I guess.... they just got a lease this august.... I dont know whats going to happen... I dont know if she will be able to work with us anymore..... hmmm

    so what would you all do?? would you date someone you work with, and then try to live with them??? there is no way I could do that..... sometimes you need to get away..... and in that kind of situation you really cant.
     
  2. interval_illusion

    interval_illusion Deceased

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    work n live with? FUCK NO. one of the above is bad enough.....
     
  3. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    people need their space. i can't imagine being together 24/7. YUCK. and i adore my husband. he's my best friend, and i'm his. but when hunting season comes around, i'm ready to see the back of him heading out for hunt camp and some time with his other buddies.
     
  4. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    I couldn't work with a so I'm too competitive at work. In relationships I like to be the submissive one and I enjoy the fact that my bf's always right but at work I'm quite a bitch and am ALWAYS right
     
  5. HippyLandscaper

    HippyLandscaper learning a new way

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    I love my wife, but hell no. If I had to be with her at work and home, the whole till death due you part of the vows would come fast
     
  6. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    I've been unemployed with and lived with my sig other...I could handle it, but wouldn't choose it
     
  7. Dustinthewind

    Dustinthewind woopdee fucking doo

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    Hell no!! i would end up killing the fucker.
     
  8. Insomniac_devi

    Insomniac_devi Beast Toast

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    I can't even stand to live with my roomates, none of which I'm in a relationship with. If I had to work with them, I'd definately get fired for insubordination.
     
  9. pabsy

    pabsy Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    been there... done that... like my own space :)
     
  10. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    I wouldn't live or work with my significant other!!!
     
  11. bedlam

    bedlam Senior Member

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    No damn way... fark that..
     
  12. hippypaul

    hippypaul Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Did that for about 2 years - but we worked on different units and only got together for lunch so maybe that’s different. Did not have any problem with it.
     
  13. dilligaf

    dilligaf Banned

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    am there n do itfor over two years now... cept for today,,, hhb went of to work on his own today,,, not by choice,,,
    but most the time we get along great,,,,
    key is keepin work n life seperate n few are able to do it for long periods,,,
     
  14. searching4nirvana

    searching4nirvana Member

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    I'm Not With Any One At This Moment, But When I Am..... Hell No
    And If I Meet Someone At Work, If Things Got Really Serious, One Of Us Would Probably Quit. I Guess It Would Depend On The Job And If We Would Always Work The Same Shifts Or Work In Close Proximity..... But I Could See It Being A Problem
     
  15. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    I think it just takes certain people, certain people can work together and live together and do it just fine and love every minute of it..
    Me personally, havent been in the situation and really cant answer to say if I would or not..
     
  16. HippyLove

    HippyLove Visitor

    when Measa and I first moved to Ohio and starting living together we worked at a restaruant together... He cooked I served... we kept it all separate. At work we weren't together we yelled at eachother and got mad like any server/chef relationship and at the end of the day we never held grudges or talked about that stuff. So it wasn't bad.
     
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