being to paranoid?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Platinum_twf, Sep 14, 2005.

  1. Platinum_twf

    Platinum_twf Member

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    ok, do you think I'm being to paranoid, and getting upset to easily over nothing? ok, my gf is in one of my classes. this one kid is always all over her, even though he knows we are going out. she just like he's like that, and he doesn't mean any thing by it, so I just like ok, as not to start a problem. but it always gets to me. and also not just him, but this fucking fag is a friend of hers and she holds his hand and jokes around with him all the time, I know he's gay, so I guess it shouldn't matter, but it just whenever I try to kid around and stuff she just like, shhh we at school, not now. or if I hold her hand she pulls away and like not now we at school, stop...that gets to me, like why is it ok for that queer to hold her hand, and joke around and stuff, and she doesn't say anything but for me it like no you can do that?? so do you think I'm getting upset to easily over nothing, or do I have a right to be, what do you think?
     
  2. Aerosolhalos

    Aerosolhalos Member

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    Wow, so am I still supposed to take you seriously after all the homophobia?
     
  3. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    umm, I don't like PDA's with a boyfriend, but I don't mind holding hands and giggling foolishly with girlfriends and people who are not possible relationship people (and know it). I'd take her word on it. Especially since he's gay, it's doubtful he's trying to make a move on your gf. Take a chill pill and have a little trust.
     
  4. Medici999

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    Man, i think you're right to be paranoid, but try talking to her man, tell her you're worried, tell her how you feel (peacefully & lovingly).

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  5. sacrament32

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    Wow u dont like gay people do u maybe u should become gay then u could hold her hand in school
     
  6. SvenStrong

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    Perhaps she more comfortable around him cause being a gay man he isnt trying to fuck her at every given oppertunity???

    Relax douchbag.
     
  7. Platinum_twf

    Platinum_twf Member

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    no I'm not worried about the gay guy, I dont care about him, I just said why does she let him hold her hand and stuff, but if I try she always says no were at school?...I said theres this other guy, that isnt gay thats all over her, and that I wonder how she is in the rest of her classes if she lets some guy do that in front of me?
     
  8. SirTokesAlot

    SirTokesAlot Lives

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    First off... ease up on the shit like "queer" and "fag"...

    2nd... you have a right to be paranoid... and if it bugs you, then talk to her about it, and if she wont listen to what your concerns are, then its not someone you wanna be with anyhow
     
  9. SG69

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    I agree with TokesAlot, talk to her and if she gives you some BS excuse or gets mad or doesn't listen then dump her.
     

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