Guys and Dolls... I have another "ideal" question...

Now, before you go blasting me, I realize most of us don't set out to find an ideal and turn down those that don't meet your ideal... Often times you don't know what your ideal even is until you meet your soulmate... you may THINK you have an ideal but later discover someone totally different that you fall for....

And now for the question...

What is the ideal height and weight for your mate (male and female). I want your idea of what perfection in the opposite sex is based soley on the aesthetic. Feel free to give a range...

Please don't take this as being shallow... I am just curious what people perceive to be "ideal". And remember, these are opinions, not facts... no hurt feelings!

I personally see an ideal woman to be 5'3" - 5'7" and weigh in around 130 - 150 pounds. That's what I perceive to be average. Not surprisingly, my mate is 5'5" and 135lbs.

I have dated pretty much the whole spectrum. I have found that I am completely comfortable with a girl at any size, but tend to shy away for the real skinny or the morbidly obese... but if she's got personality and pretty eyes, who cares about the rest!

I'm done babbling. Your turn!

 

hmmm I have noticed I tend to go for skinny guys, like really skinny guys. I'm not fussed really, I've dated chubby guys who I thought were totally hawt.

So yeah, probably a 6ft guy who was slim would be my ideal... but again, not reall specific.

5'10 is a good height.
My current is 6'4, which we both think is a bit too tall for me, but it doesnt really matter

 

aaah, the guys that i have dated have usually been quite thin as well, though a bit more on the athletic side. ...My guy right now is *thinks* maybe 5'11" or so... about 140-150 lbs. I really suck at guessing... Keep in mind his age, as well - I'm sure these measurements would look awefully odd on a full-grown adult
I just really like when a man's torso really takes the shape of a triangle, (although not completely, of course)... *drools*

 

meh...
im married
but i still look...and enjoy
i like all types
i think alot of different kinds of bodies are beautiful & sexy
it depends on something a little more primal for me

 

around 5 ft ...around 120 lbs ...brownish with black hair

 

Must come equipped with a working brain and a decent taste in music. I really don't care about the hair.

 

I honestly can't answer the question, my lady is about 5' 7' dark complection, dark eyes and hair, but I have always seen whats attractive in very different looking people

 

I usually find tall guys more attractive, but it's really not a big deal either which way. Personality plays more into attraction than height or weight does, for me at least

 

I like tall boys. Tall boys are the best. The ideal height would be... 6'4".

 

I'd say, my height or smaller and pretty eyes... The rest I make up as I go, tho I can't picture myself with like a really heavy girl, cause I like to exercise and I want a girl I can whip in to joining me

 

5'2"
long black curly hair that looks like a slinky! colour streaks is also good.
120 lbs
cute face
slim but not anaerexic (ahhh spelling!!!)
beautiful smile and eyes


but if the personality isn't there then the relationship wouldn't work though

 

tall, like say 6ft to 6.4ft. not taller though. And i too like skinny guys, im not too sure what weight that would be. but he'd preferably be lean and sinewy.

 

I've never had an ideal, until I met her. Seriously though, I've never had any kind of ideal I was looking for at all, it's always just been I'll know it when I see it.. Even people that do have an ideal, like you said, may only have that ideal until they've found it wrong.

 

About 6 foot, 6'2" at most... I'm 5'1", so too tall is kind of scary.

Probably around 150. I really dig slim guys.. broad shoulders, narrow waist and hips.

Happy trail. Long hair. Brown is good.

 

Yay, thats me.... well kinda?

Not much of a Happy trail, more like a happy single-track

 

I usually go more by face and hygiene then weight and height. Obviously there is a thing as too skinny and too big but it's usually got to be somewhat extreme. But if I went by what the guys that I thought were completely gorgeous had in common I guess I'd find an "ideal". Someone who was an inch to 6 inches taller then me (5'7" to 6 foot). Although I don't do good with guys weight and height, on guessing I'd say skinny but the kind of bulky definition you get from doing laborers work. I kind of have a construction boy fetish. I go for guys with a baby face and that care about their bodies even if they don't lose weight easily.

 

preferably shorter than my own 6', probably because tall women intimidate me, rather than putting in a weight range I'll just say I'd rather have a little more than a little less, but the biggest factor has to be intelligence coupled with personality, if a girl can't follow anything I talk about then she could be lindsay lohan for all I care and I wouldn't be interested. I have to be able to take a girl seriously

 

I really dont care , as long as theres a connection.
My old boyfriends does not look anything like each other
...one have been short one have been tall, one have been big one have been small

 

For me they have to be at least 5 feet to 6 feet tall and not be too skinny or too big.

 

I dont have a type but what Hacker said : if she's got personality and pretty eyes, who cares about the rest! just change the she to a he!

Altho Ive never been with an over weight man! not that I wouldnt I guess I just havent!!
mmm..also...
there has to be a cosmic vibe...I would starve myself of sexual relationships if there wasnt. I couldnt just sleep with someone because of the above there has to be a spark!