The way to a man's heart is through his:

well, and you're not distracted by all the public nonsense and running around. kitchens are naturally very soothing places for most people, and watching someone cook is comforting.

 

hmmm, I really like cooking, but I've only ever made sweets for bf's in the past. Actually, just one boyfriend (the second one I've ever had was a very casual relationship, no gift exchanging at all). i think I made him cookies a couple times, and made sure I invited him to any dealio where I brought food as well (sushi and some spinach cheese triangles were the other things I believe he liked). I think sweets work best though, if the guy likes sweet stuff too.... they're fairly simple, nice and portionable, don't go bad quickly and are fun to make. Really depends on the guy though.

 

I hate it when your boyfriend has something he loves that only his mum can make, and any attempts you might ever try would largely pale in comparison to his mums 'killer mudcake'

 

RE: I hate it when your boyfriend has something he loves that only his mum can make, and any attempts you might ever try would largely pale in comparison to his mums 'killer mudcake'

Why?

It's not like she hates the fact that you're sleeping with him and she never will. Why not just accept that people have multiple friends cause not one person can be everything to someone?

 

why, because as their partner, you want to provide them all the happiness in the world, though an unrealistic ideal, it doesnt make the reality seem any nicer

 

I love that idea.....no one's ever made me sweets before

That would blow me braincell, sweets rock

 

yeah. you really do wanna be perfect. but you can let it go. i have some foods that only my mom can make right, but i'm not gonna scoff at his mother's turkey dinners just because i don't like the way she makes it.

 

i'll just stick to trail mix thanks.

 

then you havent eaten my food

lol

not much i like bout myself

and i know my motives on this

i love cooking....gets me in a zone, know?

i love eating good food

and i love making good food to please people i love

 

Men (as well as womyn) have wept at how great my food is. I am a true genius in the kitchen. My dh says his buddies he eats lunch with beg for tastes when he brings left overs. "What did your wife make last night? Oh, GOD!" Like that commercial where the dude is looking at his picture phone and telling his poker buddies he's looking at "things she can do" and they all run over and start groaning, and it's her food on the screen. Hee hee hee hee.

You haven't lived until you've tasted my Bracioli in Red Sauce or my Minestrone or my Butter Dumpling Stew or my Cornish Pasties.

 

then it just means that you need to have your own signature dishes, get a few more hours under your belt in the kitchen experimenting with new things that you've wanted to try, I'm only just now rounding out my own culinary specialties myself, adding in a few soups and maybe a dessert

become known for something, like a cheesecake, curry or soup

 

I think Im going to your house for dinner

 

vinchenzo stilletto says , 'the way to a mans heart is through his ribs '

 

i was gonna say thru his mangina

 

I was going to say through a cracked open rib cage..... makno beat me to it....


seriously though, a woman who can keep up with me who I don't feel I have to be a parent to..... just perfect....


not saying I have anything against nice bodies


they just need to have something on top....

why is it okay for pretty girls to be dumb and shallow?

 

you know, it's often the same for attractive men, that they're allowed to be dumb and shallow. people can't help but to respons positively to someone physically attractive if they're not glaring at you. i've watched my entire life as SWAARMs of boys and girls flew to be by my brother's side within a couple hours of our arriving in a new town (navy brats). it was truly fascinating. he skated for years on his looks, and developed a degree of mysogyny that's terrifying, and a degree of selfishness that would make you sick. now that he's older he can't skate by any more, and he's having a much harder time of it. but at least he's finding out how intelligent he really is (to be perfectly honest, i was cast as the brainiac / geek in the family, but he blows me away). he's also having to deal with his wreckage of a life and wife.

so i wouldn't give the pretty/shallow types too much guff. they can't help the way everyone has always treated them, and they have their own pack of painful hurdles to jump if they're not incredibly lucky.

 

Its just amazing how somethings that are advantages turn out to be disadvantages later on in life... This is not only true for people having an attractive body , I think this is also true for people who are better off at other things. Sadly, most of us cannot stay detached to our sense of "vanity" until we get slapped really hard in the face.

 

you know, growing up ugly, nerdy and totallly lacking in any sort of discernible talent ended up actually being a boon. i'm so used to being harassed and beat up that i'm not really afraid to have a good time now, since it's not nearly as bad as it once was, and i've got a pretty thick skin now. i'm not used to approval from people, so i don't need it to be happy. james, on the other hand, is pretty bitter and hurt.

 

It’s nice to have your partner cook for you if you have had a long day at work and come home to a warm meal and a cold drink I don’t see what’s wrong with that. A partner that can cook well is definitely a plus one of my friends he is the primary cook in his relationship gender does not dictate who it is but it is definitely nice to have at least one person Cool well

 

Want a happy man fuck and feed him and have fun and laugh we are simple creatures don’t over complicate it