so ive been with my bf for two months,and i do truely love him. we've spoken about going all the way, and weve done everything else. i have a free house soon, as i live with my mum *who is tres cool bout such things* i am in no way a virgin, and he is, is there anyway i can make him less nervous, and should i do anything to make it special for him? any thoughts would be appreciated peoples xxxx
oooh what a lovely situation! well, i guess the best way would be to make it as natural and cool as possible. no pressure you know? invite him to come round, make dinner together, watch a film you both like, or listen to music whilst chilling out after having dinner....start things slow and easy... be seductive but natural, nothing forced, just let him know by *your advances* that you want him and that he will be staying over cos he's going to get some.. have fun and be safe!
Do what Zeppelina said unless he's overly horny, in this case he will probably want to jump right into the sack when he gets there. If this happens just go with it. If he has trouble with anything help him out.
i got a load of free condoms from the clinic todday, and ive been on the pill for over a year,so safety is covered, hes real shy tho.... i just want it to be nice for him lol
if its his first time then he'll probably ejaculate prematurely. if so then don't be angery at him. just tell him not to worry about it.
Maybe I'll be coming to you for advice soon. I am currently starting to like a guy who says he is a virgin. I'm very much not a virgin. I'd like to know how this goes in case it might offer me insight if things between him and I do start to look like mutual interest.
I am a virgin. I don't know any female virgins. I'll probably just boycot sex so I don't ever have to look like a dumbass. See, that way I can not worry about being uncool by forcibly making myself appear uncool. Get it?
