So i grew up and was taught if you like banging guys in the ass and your a guy thats fucked up. But i grew to understand that people are weird and its a free country. But what gives gays the right to hit on me. i got hit on three times and i'm getting fucking sick of it. This one guy asked me that he wants to suck my cock and he'll pay me. i ask my friends if i give off a gay vibe guy/girls. they all say not at all. I'd feel really bad if i started hated people just beacuse their gay. what should i do.
This one is tricky but I will give it a go.....Hmmmmm....okay. You are probably "Hot" and naturally gay dudes find you attractive. Some straight dudes are not pissed by this, but feel complimented that someone is turned on by them...Don't we all. Now-that being said: If the guy doesn't ask, he will never know. At this point, you should tell the person that you are straight and not interested in anyway whatsoever. The cool gay dude will say--Oh, I understand or Oh dude-sorry--my bad..The one that won't let it go and continues pushing deserves whatever you feel is needed. Don't hate all gays because of these few pushy types. Pushy types are irritating whether they be straight, gay or whatever..It almost puts them in the catagory or predator..So remember...judge people individually....My humble opinion
wonderboy, there are probably a few dozen guys just among the posters here who would appreciate some of that attention. You might just as well ask what gives nongay men the right to hit on women who aren't interested. I find that "no, thank you" is the perfect approach to unwanted attention from either sex.
I totally disagree with what's been said after this post, hitting on a (possibly straight) guy is way different that a guy hitting on a girl because straight guys have a much higher objection to it. And I sympathise with wonderboy. I originally wanted to join an anti-gay forum and talk about my next door neighbour who watches me from his window each time I return home. I hate this! I return home after a hard nights work and find this prick at his window staring out at me. And no he doesn't do it to everyone. If he ever tried to approach me like that said above I wouldn't hesitate in pulling my knife on him and telling him to fuck off out of my face. But I respect the law so unless he approaches me me in such a way, I will have to live with this irritation, you know it's fucking rude to stare!
you know what they say about karma, love: you were that prick in the window last time, or you're going to be that prick next time round, or you'll resolve it through using your mind to understand it: your call. as for wonderboy, you're a drip. i sense this gives you much pleasure one, telling everyone how sexually attractive you are always getting hit on, and two, having everyone make you the centre of attention. mmm, just the kind of straight guy i love to hit on too. :sunglasse
understand what? that I've got some guy watching me from his window whenever he gets the chance, I would not do the same to a woman because it would probably make her feel uncomfortable. at least if he is going to stand and stare at me on a regular basis he could learn some fucking manners and do in a position where I don't see him. he steps on to my property or approaches me in a way i feel threatening he's going to get fucked, oh, that's probably what he wants, doh!
no idea. you're the one who's uptight about it. but just let's imagine for a minute that it wasn't him causing you this angst but it was you doing this to yourself. have u asked yourself 'how come'? betcha haven't.
betcha i have, but i'm not going to get into my own personal issues here. nevertheless, i feel much better now for talking about it, so thanks anyway james q.
Well the guy doesn't actually stop asking me i said no a bunch of times since and i seriously fucking don't want to go to jail because i beat the shit out of a gay person beacuse it will be a hate crime.
why do u imagine the only two possible responses are (a) to suffer in silence, or (b) kill the guy? how about something in the middle, like sterner warnings along the lines of: 'look, mate, hassle me again and i'll kick you in the nuts. now fuck off an leave me alone". or how about avoiding him as much as possible or not being in his presence when u r alone? is there not someone u report him to for sexual harrassment if u feel u can't take care of it without doing your lolly. i mean, women have been putting up with this kind of shit forever and not many had to resort to violence to solve it. anyway, sounds to me like this goes a lot deeper than just this guy.
I'm not afraid of him at all he is a skinny queer i could spit on him and probably kill him. the only reason you might think i'm afraid of him is because if i kick the shit out of him i'll go to jail for a hate crime.
Dear Wonderboy841, There are many options you can go with here. It appears to me that what you need to do is offer to give him oral sex. When he takes you up on the offer, pull out a knife and cut his penis off. Or, or, or what you could do is tell him you'll give him anal. When you go to give him anal use vaseline with sand in it. Wait even better you could tell him you'll give him anal, and as he bends over shove a telephone pole straight up his gay ass. Then again you could just poke his eyes out, stick needles under his finger nails, and set him on fire (and say to him flame this). I hope I have helped you out with yor situation.
Uh, tolerate and accept it? I can't really tell you to do anything... It's up to you whether you chose to be tolerable or acceptable towards them, in the end... Either, you overcome the prejudices you were taught as a child, or... you don't. Ignorance, or humility... However, I can suggest that you at least try to learn to; be humble, about your encounters with such individuals from the GLBT community...
lisen dumb son of a bitch Spartans were homosexuals and so were millions of soldier thru out history i sugest you stick a big fat dick up your ass right now before you bump in to the wrong fairy or queer .