it becomes embarrasing for both the guy and the girl if they are very much free then it becomes an enjoyable experience for both i avoid these situations by sitting on the girls lap that way she does not have anything to pin im my bum hahah
It depends on how comfortable I am with the dude... sometimes it can be disturbing if I don't really know him well, and I feel a bit like all he wants me for is sex--- but, otherwise, it's a turn on. Totally.
Duh, we talk about the first thing that pops up. The fact that he's hard because I'm sitting on him is really hot..
Something similar happend to me. A girl was flirting with me years ago and asked me to come into her room and sit down. Then she sat straight on my lap right in the middle. I didn't think I liked her that way, but didn't think it was a good idea for her to be doing that so I asked her to get up and walked out. Years later I remembered her and found myself very interested in her. But I never got to know her.
its a deffinate turn on, hands down. and it feels really complimentary, because it means my man wants me even when we're not being sexual. i'm suprised your girl just ignored it... i wouldn't be able to resist.