need advice

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by owen2k4, Sep 21, 2005.

  1. owen2k4

    owen2k4 Member

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    well ive been with this girl for 17 monthes now im only 17 years old :< at the begging it was aamzing until like a few monthes ago n started turning abit awkard....basically were drifting apart asif we leaving the sexual/relationship of partners and turning into freinds....but the problem is she doesnt see it she still thinks we fine and i dont and it kills me to see how much she loves me and stuff which let me say i still love her and care for her but i just feel like me and her and kinda of going the wrong direction and i want my space type of thing and my head is all confuzzed

    but theres another part of it im into a freind of hers but its really out of bounds insnt it. i really cundt do that lol even though i tell the girl i like her all over msn etc.. and in person but doesnt seem to change anything

    basically id like advice on what to do becuase this girl is really into me and we both love each other but its not right and i feel sory for her if i let her go becuase we in the same school and lessons etc... so it wud be hard but i cud be making the biggest mistake ever just becuase i wnna try other girls plz help me :>

    cheers
     
  2. cutelildeadbear

    cutelildeadbear Hip Forums Gym Rat

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    You are young and your heart isn't in it with this gal. Break up with her, remain friends if possible and don't date her friends. :)
     
  3. owen2k4

    owen2k4 Member

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    why not date her freind..even after we split up lets say 4 monthes l8er or sumin still dont do it?
     
  4. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Bad idea! Even after 4 months, ex-s are off limits between girlfriends. It does not make logical sense, but that the way it is.
     
  5. tigerlily

    tigerlily proud mama

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    yeah.. definitely in a relationship that long, don't date her friend afterwards.
     

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