Do you have sex or are you waiting?

Now, not trying to 'generalize' hippies, but as is well known, many of them had sex because its 'natural' and fun. Are you waiting till you're older, or as a 'young hippie' do you already have sex? Just curious.

 

i was having sex because it was fun and i had a gurlfriend, but she is away for now and when she gets back she is then moving. so i prolly wont be having any sex for a while, but hey im not complaining

 

Free love (aka, free sex) is bullshit. I'm waiting for the right guy.


-Kate

 

fun... lmfao.

::rolls eyes:: It isn't about fun. Sure... free love, free love, free love, but in the end, does free love really matter after all? No. Life does. Your life, her life, or a life that you create. This brings up one last thing.... can't you do something else at 16, you know. Because there probably isn't a chance in hell that you'll ever be married and I read that you were breaking up because she is moving... so... what if you did have a son or a daughter. What would you do. I am pro-choice... I just think that the best thing to do is don't even think about it because that's the best way for things not to happen. It isn't for your benefit, her benefit, it's for the benefit of everyone... everyone around you. Look around you... if you were to have a kid what will your parents do to you (didn't you get expelled or something.. ok, forget what will happen to you)... or even worse, what will happen to her. It just makes it easier on the lives of everyone. Even if you were to have an abortion, the memory of it would still be there and if you never see her or hear from her again... what will become. I say carry on with your life and worry about that later, what matters is now.

 

wow, nice post George. it got me thinking even tho I already had been. I wished we never would of had sex, I got way too attached to her, and yea just what if she wouldve stayed pregnant. very scary indeed. But every single time, I'm not gonna lie I wanted it too, but she always made the 1st move. but wow.....im really thinking....damn non sarcastic post. hmmm.........ill reply more later

 

i'm not having sex right now....and it's not really because i'm actually waiting or anything, i just don't think i'm ready to do that yet

 

damn you George you really got me thinking. I think Ill wait till im older. Thank you ffor telling me how the actions ofmy actions could have been

 

I try... I like helping people and pissing people off at the same time while maintaining a level of fun, enjoyment, and amusement from it. But.. hey, no worries. I know how it could be for you, but I mean... even for the both of you, you wouldn't have a future. And it isn't about myself or my own opinions because as much as I am pro-choice, I would still rather that be the last resort, you know, but she is the mother and that's for her to determine. She may want it now, but later on.... everyone will be in a world of hurt. If you were to abort it, you'd always live with a conscience of what would that son or daughter (well, you wouldn't know if you aborted it) have become or if she decided it would be best to give it up for adoption, you'd always live with guilt and always wonder if he or she were still alive and who they really were. I know i'm younger than you, but I also know that I have more judgment, acceptance, and better patience than my parents, and sometimes that gets to me. People don't listen and if they don't listen, do I care? You bet your ass I do... but it's up to them. (I really don't know where i'm going with this, but anywho, i've got more posting and thinking to do). All in all, i'm just a person with too much time in their hands and too much to reflect upon, and when you have too much time on your hands, that's when the weird shit starts to happen.

~ George

 

actually she did have an abortion.....and it wwas very very sad. but we both chose to have it done beecausse we knew that we would not be good parenst at this time

 

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hey zeus, you've converted the heathen swine! ha... free love is like communism: it's good on a small scale. surround yourself with good people and free love eliminates jealousy, envy, distrust... all those relationship hard-aches: gone. All those relationship hard-aches: Imagine a life without them. Can you imagine that?
Oh, but, now you scream STD STD STD PREGNANCY WEST NILE VIRUS MAD COW SARS TESTICULAR CANCER sweet hell step out of your house and live... quit reading those sex-ed brochures. Mind you, I don't advocate sex amongst 14-year olds. And if you're waiting for the right person, that's a respectable decision... if you're afraid of the consequences, well, then I'm sorry to hear that... that you are afraid, of course.
Better to be safe than sorry!
blah.

 

Well, sometimes it takes an experience like that to learn a lesson.

 

i think that people should wait till they feel they're ready and want to and use protection and get STD checks

i dont feel i am ready, so no, i am not

i dont really get "free Love" , just have sex with everyone..... people get thier feelings hurt and i think you should have sex with someone you Love and care for not just anyone who wants to fuck....

 

Ditto

TTFN
Sage

 

i think love is beautiful, but i only am sleeping with one guy and i love him. i know we won't last, but life is short. this makes me happy now and we always use protection and i know if i got pregnant, he would be there for me.

 

I Think everybody should wait,

 

Ive had sex with like 4 or 5 girls...but i only enjoy real good with my girlfriend that im with right now...i dont is different with her...is like a really kewl feeling when im with her...

 

I'm waiting . . . for someone to have sex with.

ha.

Honestly... my convictions about what my own choices should be are constantly going back and forth, my priorities and views are often shifting simply due to people I'm around, really. But not like it's making a difference in my life at the moment anyway. The one, probably, strongest force for me that says, wait til you're older, is (yes, quite wacko) a dream I had. In the dream, I had had sex with some guy; I mean, the actual act was not in the dream at all, just the aftermath, laying in a room, and feeling the most terrible surges of regret and guilt, so acutely, that I know I never want to risk really feeling like that, and not having that wondrous wondrous relief of waking up with clean sunlight washing over you and knowing everything's the way it was before.

I suppose I'm just going to go how the way of things go.