I'am a gay man (well bi-curious now I suppose). I just want to know if it would turn a woman on to have sex with a gay man who has never had sex with a woman before? I'm not a "feminine" gay, I've been called "straight acting" or "butch" LOL. But would it be a turn on, or a challenge even to have sex with a gay man that wants to try and explore a womans body, teach him, and would it be even more of a turn on if you turned a gay man out (made him enjoy sex with women more than with a man)? Would it turn you on? Would it be exciting?All answers would be appreciated.
I think it would be fun! I think the only prob you might find is finding a girl who's so completely secure with her sexuality that she won't get offended if you turn around half way through and go "oh no, just can't do this!!" and run screaming from the bedroom (or wherever else you may have landed) If you're more manly, I think it's more of a turn on. I could never do it if the guy was feminin. Not to be rude or anything. It's just totally a turn off for me. But I watch gay porn and think it's encredibly sexy. So having sex with a gay man would probably be fun too. But personally? I don't think I could actually do it. I don't like sex for fun. Casual's not my thing.
i think it would be hot... but yeah, tough if i actually wanted a relationship with a guy who may realize he just doesn't like girls in that way.
No way...HUGE turn OFF. Im bi...I like them both but I could not have sex with a guy wondering if he is fantasizing about hairy ass and ball sacs. I could not get physicaly turned on by a gay man...it just wouldn't work out. LOL Well... a few years ago I had a Bi Boyfriend but didn't know he was bi untill after we broke up and I was mortified! Im slowly getting over it though. I married his best friend (Who is in no way bi !! lol)
reminds me of the episode of Seinfeld, the one where Elaine tries to get that guy to switch teams... anyway, i dont see where it would be a bad thing or anything, i can see where some would find that exciting and a turn on... women would probably hump your brains out trying to be the one that could do it for you i guess
No, I couldnt... what if he wasnt into it.... I'd be crushed. I get upset if my bed partners go a little soft.... nope, couldnt do it
I dont really understand how someone could say they were crushed or would have hurt feelings, I mean I wouldnt.. It's nothing about you, just your sex..ya know, sorta hard to explain so yeah... I wouldnt feel it as a direct insult on me, I mean you knew they were gay going in, and just trying to see if maybe he would enjoy the female body, but then he decided that he just prefers males, that wouldnt hurt my feelings cause its not like hes says, "screw you you suck, you ruined it for me and now you made me gay" so, unless that is said, then feeling shouldnt be hurt, ya know.. again bare with me cause me making sense is just not happening right now but these are just my thoughts and opinions...
wouldnt it be like shagging a virgin? if you had to tell him what to do and stuff like that, which yeah sure it can be fun sometimes, what if the bloke did fancy girls, you shagged then he went back to boy's. how good would that make you feel!!!!!!! i dont think i could, it would be a bit wierd but most of my gay mates are really camp and the thought of shagging one of them is gross, and hearing them squeek and have a lower voice than me naaaaaaaa
I think it's a turn on. As long as the guy is completely open with the girl beforehand, about what is going on and what you are trying to accomplish and such, then I think it just sounds like good fun. Hell, even with a feminine gay, it doesn't sound like a problem to me. If you just remember the first time you had physical contact (with a virgin, if that applies) and what it was like to have them touch you and look at you... it's exciting, right? Okay... most of the time. I think it's kind of the same thing. Kif used the perfect word, "explore," anything involving exploring is a turn on.
Well, I'm bi, but I think it has potential to be hot. Definitely fun. yeah as long as I knew what was going on.
RE: reminds me of the episode of Seinfeld, the one where Elaine tries to get that guy to switch teams... The woman "Elaine" is based on died of AIDS or is dying of AIDS but definitely has AIDS. Insert your own ghoulish sick joke here.
It'd be hotter with a femmy gay guy, I think. Who knows. As long as it's sex, it has potential to be cool.
