well, i've never actually been in a serious relationship...ie. i've never been loved i suppose it isn't a bad thing, but it kind of sucks cause i wish i had someone right now, ya know? im such a shy person, and really picky..i've had a few "things" going on with a few people, but other than that, i've never been in a real relationship.. aah well, there's always time to come.. i'm such a sappy/emotional mofo when im drunk, that's for sure
Well, I had to pull up this old post 'cause it peaked my interest. I know what you mean. I had the same problem for years. I couldn't even really talk to a girl that I liked. Alot of people just say, "Go for it" and I would agree, but it is not always as easy as it sounds. I helped myself in two ways. One way I found is to start talknig to girls that you find mildly attractive, then work your way up, you will be more comfortable around all women. I do this all the time and it works great. I approach complete strangers, and even though I am not physically attractive, I will often do very well. Another way, and this may sound a bit strange, but, if you lay off touching yourself, your mind will find another source of sexuall release. I stopped touching myself for about a month, and before I knew, I was all over the girls. These two things worked great for me and I hope they help you.
It's true. If you masturbate your sexual drive will go down so much that won't care about finding finding a girl enough to get one. It's not that you consciously do it. You just aren't horny enough. So if you want to masturbate try to do it like once a week at the very most. I've lost chances to be with girls because I wasn't horny enough. And I hate myself for that. If you are 18 and going into college then stop masturbating a lot right now and start looking for girls because 18 is a good age for that. I wish I could have told myself that four years ago.
I disagree, If your 18yo you have enough testosterone to have sex 10 times a day. Kris, if you want something to really help ya lmk, pm me
Kris, never give up hope. Keep your eyes open at ALL times. When you least expect that special girl to come around, thats when things will start to happen. I guarantee it. CachedOut
Also, about masturbating only once a week.... this is a horrible idea. The penis has muscles in it, body builders dont work out once a week.... THINK ABOUT IT =) CachedOut
