Guy Problem: I've been talking to Brad for almost a month now.. First things were great, we hung out 2 x's in the first 2 weeks and talked online at least 3-4 a week. But then things drastically slowed down. Now, most of the time on his screen name it's not even him.. and his friends called me once to come over and when I showed up Brad wasn't even there. Is he just not interested or playing hard to get? Once he did say he considered us aquintances on the right path.. and i asked if there were a different path and he said tha the doubted it.. What do you guys think? Am I wasting my time?
mmmmmm i'm realy not good at these sort of things so i dont know if i'll be of any help but i cant just leve you hanging.i say you just ask him about what is goin on,if he likes you n wants to be with you it will show in his answer if he dosnt i'm sure that will show aswel.if he realy does like u he's not just goin to turn you away for the sake of playin hard to get but dont put to much persure*(sorry cant spell)on him he might just be nervus.i know i've missed out on some great relationships coz i was just to frightened to jump in.is he a nervus sort of guy???hope this might help u i bit,sorry if it never i tryed,peace.
Well this situation sounds awefully familiar. To be honest i don't want to be harsh but it sounds like he is trying to put you off as in, not wanting to know you or something along those lines. I maybe mistaken which i hope i am, but you need to arrange to speak to him in person, or over the phone at least. Sit him down and ask him what's going on, because if you like him as more than a friend then don't be frightened to speak to him, be honest and what's the worse that can happen? From what ive learnt in my lifetime, is that there are hundreds of people out there that would love to spend time with you yet you may never find them til later on in life. Your still young and have a lot to go through, but if you think you two have something special, then go for it! If you just want to remain friends then maybe him ignoring you, or not wanting to see you is his way of saying he needs space or is not interested. Either way you deserve an answer from him so make sure you speak to him before you take the relationship any further. Anywayz good luck and take care!
