How many ppl out there have always said they would never cheat on anyone, but have done it anyway? My bf just moved away, I've been wantin to break up with him for a while now but I've not done it yet coz I've not really had the opportunity, and I don't wanna do it on the phone (which I now might have to do.). I went out last night and I got sooooooo drunk, I pulled this guy who was so hot but my bf's friend was there and he saw everything that went on. Now i have to tell my bf that I've cheated, and i feel shit about it, but at the same time, I obviously wanted to do it otherwise I wouldn't have, right? I didn't really have a point to this thread, I just thought maybe if I typed it out then it would make a bit more sense when I read it. I actually pulled two guys last night, one of them I really like, but I think he is kinda shy so I don't know what'll happen there. Do guys that have only known someone a week tend to walk about in their boxers in front of girls they know like them?
well to be honest, every person is different, you can't mistake that. So the answer to your question about guys walking around in the boxers after knowing them for a week is varied. Personally ive done it to my brothers girlfriends before, and girls ive known less than 24hours. Walking around in underwear is not a problem as long as your ok with yourself and are sure the other person is not going to be put off by the matter. It depends on your confidence really, if your happy with the way you feel no matter anyone says, then go for it! As for your situation, telling people over the phone is harder than obviously face to face as sometimes its not really a proper way of saying goodbye. Sometimes its better if you both want the same thing but that doesn't always happen. So you have to say to yourself, you have cheated on someone you don't want to be with? It will maybe hurt your soon to be ex-boyfriend but still, protect yourself and do what you feel is right before others. Just explain to him and be honest, that's always the best option just don't lie! Good luck with your the other boy as well! I hope this may of helped.
lol i don't know whether your being sarcastic but if your not then thankz. Ive been through almost anything you could imagine up to now, i just wish people don't have to experience what i did! So i have come here to provide advice from what ive experienced and hope people can use it to correct mistakes or stop them even happening.
No i was not being sarcastic. I wouldnt do that. I really thought that was excellent advice. Im sorry to hear you have been through so much . But you know the saying "what doesnt kill you makes you stronger "or something like that (LOL)
That was damn good advice! Thanks I tried to break up with my bf and he said no. No?!?!?! How the fuck can you say no? Don't you just have to accept it? I've tried to do it for so long now and i finally feel strong enough to actually do it instead of putting it off like i usually do. Thanks again Bradders!
Yeha, he said no. I spoke to him today and no we are officially broken up. Thank fucking God. That sounds nasty as fuck but hey, shit happens.
Everybody has the confidence in them somewhere. Just a matter of sitting down and thinking to yourself what is the worse that can happen? I live life thinking you only live once...so as long as you be honest with yourself and the people around you then you are fine most of the time. I hope the advice worked anywayz and good luck for the future, contact me if you need any further advice Take care
