how far would u go to keep family togather?

Your family is going to be your family forever. Just because you may have to go away for a while doesn't mean the rest of your family will disappear. That's the great thing about family - in a way you are always together.

I would do anything to keep my family together, there is nothing I wouldn't do to protect my family from danger, but running from the law could be putting your family in danger. Not to mention I can't imagine what it would feel like to live like you are considering. Always paraniod, always stress and worried. It really can't be good for your family.

What happens when your children grow up? Will they know who they are or will they so caught up in the secrets and messed up psycologically (from stress, instability, etc) that it harms their chances at family happiness in the future? You have lots to consider here.

How long could you possibly be going away for? Did your crime involve harming another human being? I'm asking that because I don't know your crime and certainly wouldn't support a dangerous person running away with their family - but I am not accusing you of anything, just asking.

Good luck, I really hope everything works out for you in the end. Please consider future consequences in any decisions (no matter how small or seemingly insignificant) that you make now.

 

its not me its my feonce and would only have to hide and protect her rest of us would be just gravy and her crime was forgery and she would be running from parole nuttin to big she would be legal in 7 yrs

 

I would get together a lot of WMDs *my backyard collection*

And start WWIII.

Actually, I don't even own a BB gun... *lol*

 

I can totally understand not wanting to be seperated from your fiance.

Running should be made your last resort. If the crime is forgery that hopefully she will just get probation and not have to go to jail. Is she already on parole? How long do they want to put her away for?

I can honestly say that if I were in your position I would want to run and get away for it all. I just don't know if I could live with the stress and paranoia of getting caught. And if she were caught you could be charged with aiding and abetting. Then what would happen to your kids?

This is a hard decision, michael. Just try to think of everything before you make that decision. I can't really say if it is worth it or not...but I can say that it would be something I would consider for a last resort, if I felt I had to.

 

shit, i just don't know. i've never done anything to require this sort of thought.

 

The most sensible post so far.

 

I hope it's ok to link this Michael. You're going to get better responces when poeple read what the problem is.

http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=121639

 

Let David decide.

 

what's that supposed to mean?

 

You allready forgot ?

 

oh, you're that guy. don't troll other people's threads. if you wanna wail at me like a howler monkey on crank, do it in pm's, thanks.