Do you have sex or are you waiting?

Discussion in 'The Whiners' started by Wicked Eyes, Jul 5, 2004.

  1. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    i think I am going to wait until I find the female that I am going to spend the rest of my life with. Did you know that HIV/AIDS is now more abbundant then ever? Fuckin scary man
     
  2. staples420

    staples420 Member

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    Yea I think I'm gonna wait awhile.. til I'm a little older at least. So much risk involved nowadays.
     
  3. maryfairy

    maryfairy flower

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    it can hurt so much your first time (for girls, not guys), that i don't see how a honeymoon can be enjoyable with those pains. getting stretched sucks, especially if your hymen hadn't been ripped before. you just bleed and bleed...
     
  4. Yoga16

    Yoga16 Member

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    It is funny to read all of your replies because I just had sex about 10 minutes ago, ha-ha. I decided to lose my virginity to my beloved because that is just what we are, very much inlove. I desire passion between us just as much as he does and love making is a very beautiful thing.

    But be careful. Condoms rip and unexpected things can happen, so make sure you are educated and connected with someone on a certain level before you rush into sex. Yet, I don't believe you should be a certain age to lose your virginity, that is absurd because people grow and mature at extremely different rates. It can be a wonderful and calming experience if you are safe so I highly recommend waiting until you are inlove. It is also important to respect yourself first because sharing your body with someone else can be the best or worst thing you ever do.
     
  5. Fractual_

    Fractual_ cosmos factory

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    yeah i d when i can
     
  6. antithesis

    antithesis Hello

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    Call me crazy, but I want to have sex with someone I actually care about. Which is why I haven't had it yet, I have not yet met the right person.
     
  7. Xiola

    Xiola One Lonely Seagull

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    untill when? tomorrow?:p
     
  8. staples420

    staples420 Member

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    yes same here
     
  9. Sunnie

    Sunnie Jes-Jes

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    Sex can have many different meanings to many different people.
     
  10. maryfairy

    maryfairy flower

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    thats what i waited for. i just don't see why i need a marriage certificate... i love this guy and i want to share that with him. we probably won't end up married, but i won't regret this. and i use protection.
     
  11. dotadave

    dotadave Member

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    I've had sex before but not at this time although I'm still on the market ladies ;).

    Sex is a fun activity for responsible adults to engage in. No need to wait for marriage, just be prepared to deal with the drama and the risks.
     
  12. antithesis

    antithesis Hello

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    Exactly. I don't feel the need to be married either. But I don't want to just have sex with whoever off the street. Someone that I will regret having sex with.
     
  13. VanAstral

    VanAstral Member

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    my future wife deserves the great sex, and I won't be able to provide that unless I practice practice practice.
    regrets? blah. learning experiences.
     
  14. uriah

    uriah Member

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    i'm waiting until i have a serious relationship to have sex, she doesn't have to be my wife, but she should be someone that could be. if you want to screw, then screw.
     
  15. FreakyJoeMan

    FreakyJoeMan 100% Batshit Insane

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    I's haven't been propositioned yet
     
  16. lespaulman83

    lespaulman83 Member

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    dude this is all cool how we all come together & put in our thought. well now i'll tell you mine. no never had sex & i don't think that all this stuff about sex being natural is rite i mean yea it's natural but still. there are risks involved. i do plan to have sex maybe even soon if i find someone. but i'm not going to go out & find anyone to just bang. i want to make sure we're going to be together for a while & make it worth it.
     
  17. Sunburst

    Sunburst Fairy

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    I think that sex is a spiritual experience that should be shared between two people that love each other. It's like the two souls merging, and should be shared by two people who will appreciate each other and respect and love each other. I'm waiting.
     
  18. loveflower

    loveflower Senior Member

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    ^ i second that

    and who ever said free love had to be free sex?
     
  19. Sunburst

    Sunburst Fairy

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    Yeah, that's what alway made me sorta bothered. Free love, great, love people! Love is wonderful! But love does not necessarily mean sex. Just because it feels good for a few minutes, doesn't mean it's good, sniffing coke feels good while you're high, but a while later, it doesn't do great for your soul, not to mention your body. Anywho, I'm not gonna lecture ppl, but that's what I think.
     
  20. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    hey, dont forget the chocolate milk this time
     

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