Now I have a few options. 1. Forget her (right! Of course there are plenty of other girls about, but they don't make 'em like this one very often!) 2. Kill her boyfriend. Though this would be very dramatic and in a way romantic, it's not really my way of solving problems. 3. Cripple her boyfriend. The only problem with this is it could backfire, and cause her to love him even more. 4. Profess my love to her in a way so profound and expensive that she couldn't resist any longer... such as hiring a plane to write it in the sky, or getting them to paint it on one of those gigantic skyscraper murals in downtown L.A. that they change every so often. 5. Buy her flowers. Every charming guy knows girls love flowers!
There is ONE WORD - it is the only thing you need to mend a broken heart - it is "Next!" (just joking) If she is meant for you, she will grow tired of him, and start remembering how she felt about you when you were together. Nothing you can give her will make a difference right now. Open your arms, unclench your fists and set her free, as hard as that can be, its the only way to go. Send her on her journey with a blessing and a wish for happiness that comes from your soul. If that doesn't get her, nothing will.
I was thinking about this a couple weeks ago, when I found out the guy I liked was in love with another chick. I was ready to go get my m-16...then decided against it. The next day at school I was emotional and a close friend hugged me and gave me the support I needed...three weeks later--We went to Wicked on a date last night (me and the friend) and we're dating now! Things really do work out for the better. You just have to know that.
i know im alot younger than you but i have a similar problem. only difference i can see is that this girls boyfriend is my best friend so im not considering killing or crippling him. kind of sucks because i dont plan on saying anything at all really since it is my friend and they really like each other anyways. i would say that you shouldnt kill him or cripple him which is kind of obvious. it just boils down to either tell her or forget about her, your choice
Don't tell her anything lest you further humiliate yourself.Just dissappear and forget her."Next" is the best solution. ~peace & love