Sometimes after sex, my stomach hurts... almost like a PMS cramp in my uterus. This is usually after a long love making session or if my partner and I have had sex more than once. Is this harmful to my body? The pain is not very strong and it goes away after a while, but sometimes when he is too rough or if my body is in a weird position it almost hurts to orgasim. Is there a thing as too much sex? It almost feels like he is pushing too hard into me or something... or is this normal? I am confused whether I am screaming from orgasim or from pain- haha. Any suggestions would be most comforting.
Hello, sorry to hear you've been in pain. I think I've been there before too and I was thinking of starting a thread myself. I get it most when he stimulates my G-spot, when there's deep penetration and when I go on top. I don't know what you can do about it though. I hope it gets better for you soon. Peace.
Heyyy, Barefooters.org! Great site! I'm one of their "barefooters"! Are you, too? Sucks that sex is being painful to you. I wonder if what you're experiencing is at all similar to the painful cramps that a guy gets (I've had it) that they call "blueballs": it happens when you've been aroused and hard for a lonnnng time and don't get release. Ends up being a very very bad cramp right in the testicles! Fortunately it's been a while since I suffered it. I have heard that it is possible for penile/vaginal penetration to be too deep. I would not have thought there'd be much sensation deep in there (they talk about the most sensation being in the first few inches of the vagina and all), but hey, I'm not a girl so who am I to say? If you say that it happens from him being "too rough" or if you're in a weird position... Maybe you ought to have him be a little more attentive and accomodating to what you need out of sex to have it be enjoyable. I can't imagine going at it for any length of time if I knew that it was hurting my lover, or if she was uncomfortable from the position. If I was thrusting too hard, I'd sure ease up so it didn't hurt her. There's no reason for that unless it's her particular turn-on to feel some pain. That doesn't sound like it describes you, though. I hope you figure out what you need to do. You really ought to ask your gynecologist about this. This IS what they're there for, and you should not feel embarrassment asking a doctor sexual questions, especially not that kind of doctor. Blue skies, -Jeffrey
Yea i have definatly felt that. Also does anyone find that the hard ridge inside your vagina if it gets hit it really hurts and is uncomfortable. Idont know what the part of the vagine im talking about is called but ouchy!!!
Hey peacefuljeffrey, my boyfriend and I are members of the SBL too! I try to live barefoot as much as possible and I just love the odd stares I recieve when people pass me in the street. Anyways, thank you all for making me feel better. And don't worry, my boyfriend is very sensitive to how I feel and would never mean to hurt me. Yes, greentree, I feel it most when he hits my g-spot. That is why I don't tell him to stop, because it feels good at the same time! (Ha-ha.) So maybe there is such a thing as too much sex or too deep of penetration? Hmmm, well at least it is not a horrible pain. I am sorry Fleassy, I do not know what pain you speak of. Fortunately I don't think I have ever hit it, but maybe we should both ask our doctors about these questions. Well thanks again, and have a good one.
That's your cervix, and yes, if your partner's penis is big enough, it can hit it and it can be painful. Dyspareunia is the technical term for painful intercourse (for males or females), and is pretty common-about 60% of women will experience it at some point in their lives. It can occur during or after sex. Make sure you are very wet (use lube if necessary) before sex. And yes, going at it for too long can make you feel sore-this is why hour-long lovemaking sessions sound good in theory, but fail in practice. Usually half-hour is the maximum I can go before I start getting dry and achy. Also, try different positions-sometimes him on top will not feel as deep as you on top or doggystyle. Endometriosis and gonorrhea can also cause pain during and after intercourse, but I would try the other suggestions first before going to the doc- like I said, this is quite common.
I beleave you should see a doctor about this and tell him everything. I had a friend who's wife had pains to the point she just started refusing to have sex anymore. well it turns out later she had a growth inside that was causing this added pressures and pain. she's alot better now though that its been removed.
