Ok right, tips for oral sex people for both men and women. Come on share ur secrets and moves. Dont be shy!!!
i read from someone on here a ways back that a good idea was to put a menthol cough drop in your mouth, roll it around for a while, and then go down on your girlfriend (i dont know if this works on guys too). this gives both hot and cool sensations, and feels nifty.
In the words of 2pac: "It don't matter just don't bite it" Though I have to add, I do enjoy mouth fucking.
that sounds like it would make the process quite unpleasant for me....i don't know about other guys, but i LIKE the taste of pussy (well, with the girls i've been with, anyway) and the thought of those nasty cough drops added to the flavor makes me want to gag....like chewing gum and eating crackers, or drinking hot cocoa while eating sushi, certain flavors just DO NOT go together! i dunno if it's good for the girl or not, but i dunno.....seems nasty to me.....and if a girl ever wanted to give me head with a cough drop or altoid or something in her mouth as i've seen suggested on here, i'd probably run! i don't want some wierd cold feeling down there...i can't see a girl wanting it, either, but i guess everyone likes something else. hell, i don't really want to go to the length of explaining how to do it, but there are good tutorials all over the internet anyway. just make sure you focus on the clitoral region and keep your tongue moving all over the place, and suck (maybe even nibble very lightly!) on it as well every now and then.....youre also likely to get a good reaction if you finger her at the same time, ESPECIALLY if it's easy to find her g spot (first girl i was with was extremely easy to find her spot, last one i never really could....maybe some girls don't have it or its just harder to get to, i dunno) hmm....one good trick that people have posted on here over and over again is to spell out letters on her with your tongue. doesn't matter if you dont get them exact, the point isn't to actually spell anything but to make sure you keep moving in a different direction and dont just get lazy and keep the same, potentially boring, pattern going over and over again. also, some girls take a while to get off, and if i haven't been with a girl in a while and it takes 20 minutes to half an hour of head to get her to cum, my jaw and tongue tends to get really tired after a while. try spelling out letters with you tongue on your hand for about 15-20 minutes at a time when you're alone watching tv or something, just for practice to keep the muscles in shape that aren't used for much of anything unless you're going down on her.... i dunno, thats all i can think of, but i'm not about to give a step by step....every person is different and likes different things, so its pointless to even try to explain it in depth....go with the flow, and if you can't tell if she likes it, you don't really have much business sleeping with her anyhow!
The coughdrop thing? Aye, never experienced it, but I don't think it'd feel too pleasant afterward.. that cold burn feeling. x). maybe i'm just weird. hushup . I like experiencing with different temperatures when I give oral, and humming gives vibrations as long as you don't accidentally hum the oompa loompa song when you're stoned x). not such fun times... D=.
hmm....i suppose, it couldn't hurt and guys certainly wont complain if they walk in on you "practicing" i'd say for a girl, i dont know how tired the jaw/mouth muscles get, so i couldn't tell you. i personally take longer to get off from oral than from sex, and i HAVE had someone stop because they couldn't go long enough for me. so i guess whatever it takes to get good enough at it to go for, say, 15 minutes at least. i'd actually think that if you're going to "practice" then the best bet would be to practice on a sex toy of some sort, because if you want to be REALLY good at it you ought to try and keep improving on how much you can take for how long without gagging. not that most guys mind the feeling that gagging creates (actually, i guiltily love the feeling of a girl gagging on me, but i feel bad because sex acts should be pleasant for both partners, and most people dont like to gag themselves!) but just to make it better for you. some guys are fine with the ladies just tending to the tip of the penis, but i need some movement and i want most, if not all of my cock in the girls mouth for most of the time. i really dig it if a girl is comfortable enough with giving oral to let ME do the work for her and move myself in and out at my leisure.....but it's also great if SHE can just keep bobbing her head up and down the length of my member. its the feeling of the mouth and the motion that do it for me, not suction or simple licking...those are just teases, and wont get me off. so yeah, i guess if you want to practice at it, i'd suggest using a sex toy. if you want to MASTER it, try getting something set up so that you can somehow attach a toy to a wall or coffee table or something so you can practice it hands free......oh, and tape your practice sessions and send them to me and i'll send back your grades
A tip...rest your upper lip just above, but not on, the clitoris and leave it there. Your tounge and lower lip can reach anywhere down to the perenium(?) (the bridge of flesh between the vagaina and the anus) and manipulate what ever you want, but the constant presence of the upper lip is a plus. Similar technique is to lay your finger along side the clit.
Well, the big thing that works for me is just listening to her. If she moans louder when you are doing something, she likes that. Keep doing it. Also, go slow. If she's starting to cum, don't speed up. Keep licking at the speed you are going, if not even slower. That seems to really work, at least for me. And yes, pay attention to the clitty, but give it a rest every once in a while. Also, this is for more psychological reasons, let her know how much you enjoy doing this for her, and let her know how great you think she looks, tastes, etc. I think that some women might be a bit self consious of themselves down there, and letting them know you are enjoying it will help to ease that fear, so that she can let go and enjoy it. Lastly, ask her. Most women would be happy to tell you what they like. Ladies, what do you think? Am I on base here?
nesta, i think it's cool that you keep the muscles in shape when you're not with a girl. I find it work to bob but when he does the work then it's so much easier, as long as he doesn't ram it so that I gag. The menthol cough drop would just feel weird to me. MikeE, thank-you for sharing my bf's secrets that he's been trying to keep from me. DirtyDave, I noticed how many men will increase speed or pressure when I'm about to cum and why change something that's been working so well, right! At this point i'd prefer a slower speed not a faster one and the same pressure. I'm not self-conscience in bed but I know alot of women are so mentioning to put them at ease was a good point
Glad to spill the beans. The real "secret" is being aware that each lip and the tounge can work independantly, giving a cuniliguist three tools for touching. For advanced students, there is a difference between "lip" and "lip backed by teeth."
I've never had the whole cough drop thing, but one thing my ex did do once that was amazing was with Carmex. He smeared it all over his lips and when he went down on me it made me burn and shiver at the same time in a really amazing way. i loved it. also... I'm not sure if someone already said this or not, but one thing I do that a lot of guys hadn't ever had before and really like is humming. i recommed either deep throating him and then humming softly, or sliding him in and out, humming soft and then louder. i've done this quite a few times and i think its pretty much always been very much appreciated. and its a lot of fun for me too lol
Depending on your partner, different methods of going down will work more effectively. If you've gotten to this point with your partner, you should have a fair idea of what she likes. Take advantage of that knowledge. One thing that I highly recommend however, is a sexy look. Sexy looks can make all the difference, and the best place to throw one in is as you're licking, sucking and kissing your way down her stomach. Take time to stop, look up and smile devilishly. Letting her know that you really want to do this and aren't just doing it because you're hoping for reciprocation is a great turn-on. Unbutton your partners jeans, pull the tabs back and kiss her newly exposed flesh. Unzip her pants, pull the tabs back as far as they can go and place light, tender kisses on her abdomen and around the top of her panties. Watch it, some women are very ticklish here! (Note the above doesn't work so well if she doesn't have jeans on but you're all smart enough to figure it out...) Once you've removed everything but her panties, stop. You have a unique opportunity for further arousal. Kiss her legs and inner thighs with gentle kisses. Work your way up each leg and make a point of stopping at the line of her underwear. Kiss again along the top of her underwear, and along the other two borders. Now move to her cotton (silk? lace? latex?) covered sex. Plant firm, dry kisses through her underwear on her sex, low and right around the vaginal entrance works best for me. If your partner is really excited, often her underwear will be damp and will smell (pleasantly) of her sex. Removing the underwear is again a matter of choice. You know your partner best, I prefer either gently sliding it all the way off with my fingers, or pulling it part way down with my teeth first. DIRECT KISSING: It is not unusual for your partner's lips to be closed together. A very excited woman's lips may be slightly spread already ("pouting"). Again, building tension can be accomplished by light kisses on either side of her sex as well as light blowing. (Do not inflate your partner! This can be very dangerous!! - You can rupture internal organs this way.) Spreading her lips can be accomplished by placing your tongue first at the base of her sex, and then firmly running your tongue all the way up. Continue with a few long licks from the base of her sex all the way to the top past her clitoris. Vary the firmness of your tongue from hard and pointed to broad and soft. THE BIG "O" The best and most proven method of making your partner cum through oral sex is by repeated, rhythmic stroking of her clitoris with your tongue. The tongue is uniquely suited for this purpose because of it's texture, versatility, and pliability. It is difficult (and tiring) to apply too much pressure to your partner's clitoris with your tongue. Some women are much more sensitive than others however. Be receptive to any sharp gasps, you could be being too forceful. If this is the case, move away from direct contact of the clitoris or adopt a gentler technique. Repeated, rhythmic stroking can be accomplished in a variety of ways. I prefer either rapid, repeated vertical licks with a firm, pointed tongue, or planting your tongue firmly and stiffly against your partner's clitoris and vigorously shaking your head back and forth. (Tiring, maybe. But it's worth it!) If you are having trouble finding the correct angle or method for rhythmically lingually caressing her clitoris, or if you want to try something fun and new: Tongue the ABC's. No seriously! This is a great oral exercise on any part of the body. Tongue the ABC's starting with lower case, and moving though upper case. (Heck, you could do the whole ANSI ASCII set if you'd like!) Be especially perceptive while you do this, vary your speed and watch for sharp intakes of breath - chances are you've hit the right angle. The ABC's give a large variety of different strokes, so come back to this exercise as often as you'd like. A general rule of thumb (tongue?) is to start slowly and pick up the pace as you go along. This is definitely a general rule though, feel free to break it by varying your rhythm, both slowly and predictably as well as quickly and startlingly. OTHER FUN THINGS TO DO Lick between the inner and outer lips; penetrate the vagina deeply (a much stronger, iron-like taste here); "tease" the entrance to her vagina with rapid pokes of your tongue at varying depths; don't forget your hands, often a woman will feel a need or ache for something inside of her while very aroused, oblige her with a finger or two. Both kissing and manually manipulating your partner is tough, anyone with successful methods is welcome to pipe in. Talk to your partner, ask her what she likes. Experiment (if you can) with many different partners. What excites one woman a lot may not excite another as much, but may still be well worth trying. On the other hand, you may not notice a subtle pleasurable technique on one woman that can be easily learned on another. The better you know your partner, the more effectively you can please her. Have fun! A FINAL NOTE Women are very different, the above suggestions may work wonderfully with one woman and so-so with another. Some women simply aren't responsive to oral sex due to strong moral constraints. Also, I am not an expert. Though I love oral sex and have had the joy of pleasuring many women, I still have a lot to learn!!!! If you would like to sponser an Oral Sex workshop in your home town... Contact Either myself or olhippie. We are currently taking bookings for Summer 2006!~
If your eating pussy and she's REALLY enjoying it..and you'll know, please don't change positions, don't slow down and don't speed up....don't apply more pressure. Just keep doing what you're doing. There's nothing more frustrating than being on the verge and losing it before you go over the edge.
exactly.... so don't do anything you can't maintain, mmkay? My last bf did something amazing, I don't even know what it was, but it brought me to the brink... told him not to stop but he couldnt' keep it up, whatever it was. which meant I had the smallest orgasm ever and could orgasm again for a while (clit gets overstimulated right after orgasm, no matter how mild)
LOL I absolutly have to spell out my name with my tongue. I let her know what I'm doing too (after going the whole body route first.) I claim the pussy as mine and then let it progress from there according to her moans and actions.
