Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes I'm certain it happens all the time

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by water_baby, Oct 8, 2005.

  1. water_baby

    water_baby Senior Member

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    "What do you see when you turn off fthe lights?
    I can't tell you but it sure feels like mine."

    I'm in love with a girl, an instructor in an acting workshop at school. I'm a student in one of the acting workshops. Since the first time I saw her I can't keep looking at her, she's so cute, damn! Sh'es Portugese. I think she's about 22 or 23. She has a type of look that I am so attracted too, and her ass is so hot! Oh Damn that girl is hot! Her long brown hair, tight pants, nice big curvy ass.
     
  2. Elle

    Elle Senior Member

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    hmmm...i dont believe in LOVE at first sight. i think that is something that grows over time. but i do believe in chemistry at first sight. ive taken one look at someone and known that something special was there and indeed that was the only guy that ive ever been truley in love with and we lasted 3 years. that didnt happen with many other boyfriends that "first sight" thing. but i can usually tell within 5 minutes of meeting something if its there or not.
     
  3. water_baby

    water_baby Senior Member

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    I don't necessairily believe in love at first sight either, but it did happen to me once.
     
  4. makno

    makno Senior Member

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    yep it happened to me ....
     
  5. DirtyDave

    DirtyDave Member

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    Happened to me also. And it's a damn tough thing to get over.


    At first glance I knew the girl was extremely special. It was just something in the eyes and smile. Three hours of conversation and I was in love.
     
  6. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    My boyfirend totally dug me without even meeting me, and months later when he saw me out on the town he decided to make his move, He said that he had planned to "make you all mine" from the first moment he saw me, and that he had thought I was gorgeous from the second he laid eyes on me.

    so yes... I guess do...

    lol, funny thing is, took me weeks to fall for him because i didnt want to.
     
  7. feministhippy

    feministhippy Member

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    I believe in infatuation at first sight.
     
  8. Sebbi

    Sebbi Senior Member

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    Yes - it's happened to me 3 times. Once was when I was 8 - the result was a long distance thing until I was 12. After that was the lead actress at my drama group - I was too indecisive though, it didn't get anywhere because someone else got there first thanks to my "I'll just give it a bit more time" attitude.

    The third time was with my current girlfriend.

    Thing is, each time it was, as someone else put it, chemistry at first sight - I'm a little edgy about throwing the word "love" around.
     
  9. cutelildeadbear

    cutelildeadbear Hip Forums Gym Rat

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  10. UnspokenThings

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    i liked my ex straight away, for about year but i didnt think it possible that she liked me too, and apparently she felt the same and just knew that one day it would happen. And it did. For two years. So i guess it was a lot of anticipation to end into nothing.

    :)
     
  11. makno

    makno Senior Member

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    no that can happen all the time but i ended up spending 5 years with someone reel groovy and we clicked in 10 min.
     
  12. Amos

    Amos Member

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    i've never loved anybody who i didn't love at first sight
     
  13. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    your a psychomicheal who falls in love with 20 women every 5 minutes & then stalks them the rest of theyre lives
     
  14. ZenMunchy

    ZenMunchy Gracious In Defeat

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    Im tring to get over the girl that a fell mutually in love with at first sight. I do belebe in it because i was there in the arms of her but fate lead us away. now i must try to find meening to my days for there to be hope for myself. its hard~
     
  15. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    me personally, I do not believe in love at first sight...thats just loving the way they look... love for me is more deep then the outside and a feeling when I first see someone...so again, No, I dont believe in love at first sight...
     
  16. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    I believe in lust at first sight...you don't look at someone and think "I want to marry them" just because they look good. What you really think is "I wanna rock their world" They might be a freaky psychopath.....:D

    Real love takes time.....and isn't found on the outside.
     
  17. Therefore...

    Therefore... Antidentite

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    Sure I believe in love at first sight. I fall in love every day. But as for loving devotion, that takes time.
     
  18. ZenMunchy

    ZenMunchy Gracious In Defeat

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    love at frist site is not something exslpanable. It defies all logic. it is something truly magical. it is not just how some one looks that makes you fall in love with them. its almost as if your souls kiss as your eyes meet.
     
  19. sara_rose

    sara_rose Ice Queen

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    i agree, that's so true :)
     
  20. Manxie

    Manxie Member

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    Love or lust at first sight?.. I believe in being attracted to someones appearence and deminor.. style, or the way the carry themselves... but for me it takes getting to know them and establishing common basis and familiar territory, sharing moments both intimate and non-intimate before i can love someone, but it all starts with a look or a glance... smiles...
     

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