Sexually Altered States

and thank god for that! i've pretty much gotten over any guilt too. and i feel stronger and less vulnerable because of it. i take responsibility for my own actions and am now okay with saying no even when i'm horny.. lol (and that's not just no to having sex with somebody, but to other things surrounding sex.)



which brings me to another point..... coersion/manipulation while horny. ppl seem a lot more willing to do odd things for sex don't they? if your parnter is into such-and-such a thing and you've never thought about it before, or maybe it's something that would normally disgust or offend you, then all of a sudden it's something you'll try to please your partner. or maybe that's just for submissive ppl. i'm thinking dominant ppl are more likely to coerce their partners into doing things for them.

 

i have altgered thought patterns is sobrietty...its not often that im not horny and want to do and talk about things most dont

 

Inverted thoughts got me thinking... sortof. I wish I could spit on people and observe them in their beds now.

 

yes, i do this.

sex makes me say things over and over... and it seems hot at the time

 

These are precisely my points that all you guys are making.

The altered state of sexual arousal can cause us to want or do things that we normally would find silly, absurd or even repulsive in non-sexual conversation.

I have come to a great awakening about this and realized that I embrace every aspect of who I am, that this is subject to change and that if and when it does something else will be there to replace it just as "naughty". So, I accept that with no guilt.

I also enjoy hearing other's experiences with this and maybe, if some feel guilty, we can help them get over this and embrace the fullness of who they are.

 

I'm surprised you didn't mention Asphyxiophilia (air restriction during orgasm for those who don't know). Normally most people I know, if someone reaches for their neck (to look at a necklace they are wearing, for example), the natural instinct is to stop that person from going after your neck. There are people out there that can't get off unless they stop airflow.


I've been told it's considered one of the most dangerous forms of sex. Especially if it's done while masturbating (autoerotic asphyxiation). A brother of a friend of mine died this way. Used his belt to restrict his airways, accidentally kicked the chair out from under him and hung himself.

 

Yes, this is a little more popular than most people realize. It does nothing for me, personally.

The danger of such a fetish is, indeed, great.

 

Does nothing for me either. It's just something I was thinking about when I read this thread. I don't think I could do it, but in an aroused state, I have been known to be more easily manipulated into doing things I would not normally do. I couldn't imagine my lover asking me to choke him in order to get him off and something going wrong.

Another situation that would fit in this. A couple nights ago I was masturbating before I went to sleep and I could hear moaning. My roommate and my best friend were messing around. My first reaction was that I was slightly pissed off for being distracted and having to start over. After a few minutes my friends moans started to turn me on and it actually got me off harder then normal.

 

Ah...the sexually altered state attacks! Ha ha...

The study of the SAS is one of my passions.

 

What are roman showers? Barfing on people?
Thinks: romans--vomitoriums + showers = barfing on people.
I've heard of people playing with urine and feces, but not barf. Does barf turn anyone on here? just wondering...

 

Roman Showers are that.

I am not turned on by that nor do I personally know anyone who is.

But, someone is, apparently, because it is fetish complete with websites, films, and such.

To each his/her own.

 

"Aggressive Energy - Some people, such as myself, often release an aggressive-type of sexual energy during sex (especially at the point of orgasm). This is a primitive, animalistic nature that you can witness in sex of other beasts...but it is well worth mentioning I think anyhow, seeing as to how it can contribute to some of the above mentioned acts."

seriously. that one made my mouth water.

i notice that when i'm really horny that time slows down. i get a little predatory, to be honest, that's the only way to state it. and i'm a magnet for women. i've yet to determine how to have the same effect on men. i think perhaps they more often see me as comptetition rather than an option. i have to be very direct with men. if they're not scared of me, it works out just fine. typically, though, i terrify them and have to act girly to get laid. thankfully, though, dave likes me direct and forceful, he's not at all intimidated.

but, if you see me when i'm not horny, i'm pretty much girly, i giggle, i have a high pitched voice and very cheeky smile. i'm bouncy. i squeal when i see babies or shiny pretty things and i'm dying to feed you. it's inexplicable, the difference.

 

Sounds intriguing. Most women and girls I have spoken with get off on one of two things :

1) Rape fantasy
2) Stranger fantasy

The two could be combined I suppose.

A few have gotten off on forced lesbianism or FemDom as well.

Most girls have went wild...of the deep end...when I became aggressive with them (even the most domineering women), but I also can be a sloppy slave to do anything for them.

I can be a god and skull-fuck her or be a doormat and lick her feet. Ha ha...

Versatility!

 

I know that feeling only it's a little more extreme for me. Either I'm extremely aggressive and come on very strongly or I'm so shy that the guy thinks I'm not interested. It's annoying because I can never seem to find a middle road. I'm either seen as intimidating or unapproachable.

Another of my problems is that I'm very open and blunt, especially about sex. I don't feel I have anything to hide and have been known to make "guy" comments. Meaning, sometimes the way I word things would be compaired to guys high school locker room talk. Sometimes this turns guys on but most of the time it intimidates them too much and they just see me as odd.

However, when I'm not all horned up and coming onto a guy, I'm highly girly. I've been told I'm a soft androgynous.

 

That's interesting... ha ha

 

OMG that is so weird. I hate throwing up. I hate it so much I refuse to drink alcohol--ever. I can't stand it at all.
ugh!

 

A whole bunch of people have died from tieng a belt around their neck.

 

back when i was really skinny i had a freakishly tiny waist. so anyway, at this party this guy developed a total fascination/obsession with my waistline. fucker stole my favorite belt while i was sleeping and was getting off with it. i let him keep it.

 

Somebody slap me. I'm feelin horny.

I know, it seems sick, but I actually do have rape fantasies. I dunno why, I just do. It just seems sooo sick and wrong, lol.

 

i tend to get manipulative and stuff when im really horny...but i think its because i usually have to seduce my bf in order go get him to do anything with me, esp sex or foreplay