ok, theres this freshmeat that likes me, im a junior. shes ok looking, i dont have to many feelings for her as far as liking her go, but she really likes me, ive been avoiding the subject cause ya sure i can go out with her and fuck the shit out of her, but i dont want to do that to her, if she was u know, like one of the super hot, sluts in scool id be game, but shes not, and i jst dont want to do taht to her, o and i dont want to put eighter of us in that position, when we break up i still will see her alot on campus. what do u think i should do?
If you don't have feelings for her, you should tell her. It's like ripping off a band-aid: Do it quickly and get it over with. It might hurt her, but it will be better for both of you in the long run. You won't have to deal with the pressure she's putting on you and she can stop wasting her time trying to get you to like her. It sucks but I think it's the right thing for you to do.
By all means, do not give her any reason at all to believe you are interested in her. Just flat out tell her you aren't. Girls are always digging for some sort of hope and if there is any to be found, they will clasp onto that until they find more hope elsewhere. It's very respectable of you to not date her just to get in her pants, too. I admire that. Don't feel bad, sometimes you just aren't interested in someone who's interested in you. But you might want to try to make friends with her (and let her know that it is strictly a just friends sort of thing), because she might be really cool. You never know.
Tell her you don't like her, but ask her if you can bone her anyway. Tell her that that's how she'll make upperclassmen friends.
hehe Toolmaggot. Don't let her think you like her or that she can make you like her. I'm a junior too and this freshman boy likes me and yeah I think he's cute but not really my type. I totally told him "You're cute but I really don't like you like that, but if you want to fuck in the backseat of my car sometime, no prob" He got scared. Those underclassmen are all talk. The probably think penis' have cooties, so I wouldn't waste your time or hers. Who knows you might become genuinely interested...someday.
i like toolmagots idea te best. ill do that, and stay friends with her, but il let her know how i feel
If you don't like her and don't want sex from her....what's the point? Move on...she'll fiind someone to appreciate and desire her. She doesn't need someone who's not into her.
