Ive realized that i dont know how to act around guys, like when im dating them. i mean i do, but in certain situations. like if we were both in my room on my bed just listening to music, i wouldnt make the first move, but i know he would want me to, i dont know how to make that move. I dont know what to do. and i think im makeing myself sound stupid, but its only because im not experienced in those situations.:& its like another person just posted a thread on how to satisfy a girl cuz he wasnt to sure, well i dont exactly know how to satify a guy. I just need guidence i guess. me and my friends always talk about this and they asked me what i would do, and i had no clue what i would do. if u have any tips or somethin. pleace be kynd to me, haha. I think i just need to go with what happens at those moments and relax about it. but i get nervous. thanks. peace~
Wow, this is a tricky one to answer, because there are a lot of 'ifs and buts' about the situation. I suppose the first question is, how far do you want to go? You're 15, so legally you shouldn't be having full sex, but ... is that what you want to do? How far have you been with the guy so far? You say you're not experienced, but no one is to begin with. You get experience when you start to try things, then you find out what you like, and what your partner likes. This is why it's hard to give advice about 'how to satisfy a guy.' What works for one guy may not for another, so you have to experiment. And don't be afraid to ask if he likes what you're doing, or to tell him if you like what he's doing. As for getting nervous, most people do when they're in your situation. Presumably you don't want to scare the guy off by being too up front, nor do you want to be too slow and have him get bored.
if you want it to go somewhere but dont want to 'run the show', just give him hints like puttin your hand on his inner thigh, movin up close to him....you get the idea
Do what feels right... If it doesn't feel right, stop it RIGHT THEN. Don't ever let it progress farther than you want it to go.
If you're not completely comfortable around someone, then you're not ready for sex. Try doing other things together first.
By the time you two are ready to make a move on each other you should know each other well enough and be comfortable enough to just say "want to make out?". That might sound corny, but its not, because your boyfriend is going to say "Hell yes", maybe not outloud, but in his head. You don't act different around guys than you do around girls. Both sexes can act extremely weird at times, both get hyper, both make crappy jokes... ect... ect... ect...
