Is there anyway that I can last longer when I'm havin sex with my g/f? I usually blow my load soon after we start. The only way I can last a long time is if she is on top. Thanks for the help.
i read this in a mag. once i forgot which one but it seems to work...Try this when you are having sex just before you start to finish so to speak ,stop but stay in her and let the fealing go away-this tends to work a lilbit.further more the best two ways i have tryed and that do work are this- during intercourse (this may take a while but worth it) when you start to finish try and hold it in as long as you can,while still going at it. it takes some time but its rewards a really great orgasm the longer you hold it in-the second way is when you "choke your chicken" so speak to the same thing go as long as you can holding it in..This should help ya last longer to... hope this helps...peace. PS ill look in my magazine rack to see if ist ill have the issue i seen it in . there may be some things i left out. But for now this should help.
try masturbating before you have sex and maybe then you will last longer..but I dont know cause I dont have a penis..
Ice Man is right...when you feel yourself nearing orgasm, pull back a bit. Slow down, and focus on her. Then, when you're relatively cooled down, start going for the peak pleasure again. Do this a few times (but not too much...you don't want to last FOREVER, we do get sore after a while), until you're finally ready to cum. Not only will you last longer, but your orgasm will be more intense.
I would suggest a cock ring. No, this is nothing particularly freaky. Go to your local sex toy and video shop and go for the basic cock ring, which is a rubbery ring that fits around the base of the penis. One will probably cost you five dollars or so. It serves to keep the blood inside the engorged penis (this is what makes it hard) by slightly constricting the blood flow. In my experience it definitely keeps you going longer, and in the process makes it that more intense when the time eventually comes.
Use a condomn so theres less friction and you last longer (unless your already using one of course) Maybe try a thicker one Get drunk, it makes you last soooooooo much longer Do it more that once, every time after that takes longer. Try and do it as soon as possible too (i dont know what thats like for guys) but i love it when he finishes, but then comes back before im not horny anymore Or you could pull out before blowing and play with her as others mentioned, (finger her or lick her whatever) so the steam doesnt go down for both of you. Do that a few times Thats all i could think of at the moment Love Amanda