Interracial Sex

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well Im hispanic and I love black girls, Im not racist at all. My gf is from the Carribeans but acts alot like a white girl lol and I love her so much. Sex is great no matter what race you are and even better when your in love with them. Racism is overrated and should be dead and burried by now. holla.

 

The late comedian Redd Foxx (Whom those of you over 40 may remember from TV's "Sanford & Son") once cracked that "If we have a nuclear war, everybody will be a dark brown."

-- Skeeter

 

oh, it doesn't matter to me. I lost my virginity to a dear friend who's milado -half black/half white-, and I'm still interested in him =). I think any mix and match is beautiful, as long as theres some form of love behind it all. Mindless fucking makes me a little sad inside, personally, but if it's your thing, it's your thing =), who am I to pass judgement?

 

Fuck "race". It's a figment of your imagination. Set yourself free. Free your mind. "Perspective pries your once weighty eyes and it gives you wings."

And fuck whomever you wish.

 

i never used to find south east asians attractive until i went there. after being in indonesia for about 6 weeks i saw myself in a shop window reflection and got a hell of a surpirse at how much different i looked from everyone else, i'd normalised their different physical appearance so much that i became odd looking to myself, if u know what i mean. so it's a weird thing really. indonesian faces that i imagined were hard to tell apart were actually vastly different when i got to see alot of faces and i became aware of the subtleties in features that distinguish one indonesian from another. that was when the sexual attracction began to kick in and i found that i suddenly saw a whole world of beautiful ppl that hadn't existed six weeks be4.

 

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im from s.wales u.k. im white and had quite a few interacial relationships. 1st post on this site. a chinese lady was amazing. a columbian lady was incredible with sex but unbearable due to volatile temperament. black ladys were also good, but ive settled with an indian/pakistan lady who doesnt look asian, looks more black, but is extremely interesting to live with. im male early 30's.

 

To me there is only one race, humans.

 

That's ridiculous. I am exclusively into sex with women. Once you feel the inside of the vagina, you'll never go back. The color of someone's skin doesn't measure how good they are sexually. Last time someone said this to me, it was a spanish girl who couldn't dance because she has no rhythm. She doesn't sleep with white guys cause "they suck." Don't ever listen to a spanish woman who can't dance. Well, I'll admit that a lot of white people aren't totally in touch with the energies that they need to be in touch with, mostly because there is a lack of culture, imo..but hey thankfully that isn't all of us caucasians. but anyways yea being biased like that isn't cool. Someone good in bed is good in bed, the color of their skin doesn't matter.

 

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It played better than it reads. thanks for this thread +reputation

 

There are a lot of lesbians out there who would agree with you on that point. But you'll never convince gay men of that. I should know: When I came out bi in 1993, a lot of gay men whom I thought were my friends denounced me as a "traitor" to the gay community. I lashed back, denouncing them as heterophobic hypocrites.

-- Skeeter

 

That sounds pretty stupid. It's not like a surprise or anything though, people tend to hate what they fear or do not understand. I think any man who says he doesn't like the way his dick feels inside a vagina is lying though. Sorry, but it's naturally lubed, warm and gushy.

 

One thing I've never understood is interracial porn. It's extremely popular (do a google search if you've never heard of it), but I don't understand why. Sure, a bisexual man who likes black men and white women might like it, but why would any straight guy care what race the bloke is in the pictures?

To answer the "Europe" question about interracial relationships, I can only speak from personal experience: I've lived all around the UK and I've never really encountered any racist people, although I am white so I may have a different story were I a different colour. But as far as I can tell, there isn't any objection to interracial dating here. My ex girlfriend was a different race to me and the issue of race never really entered anyone's head.

I've met a couple of old people with seemingly "racist" values, but I don't really think these are racist people; they're just naive (and slightly ignorant) people who grew up in a white world, who aren't used to other races. Their opinions on other races are based on imagination, rumour and speculation rather than real-life relationships. To them, it's all inconsequential, since they have never really met people of other races, and probably never will.

However, there is still a big problem among our Asian community with inter-faith relationships (ie a lot of people from Hindu and Muslim religions don't like their children having relationships outside their own religions).

 

the problem with absolute statements is they can be absolutely wrong... i don't like and no-no lying, mester.

 

But you like the feeling of a different hole that isn't naturally lubed? You don't like vaginas because you don't like women. If a man had one, you'd be all over it.

 

I suspect that in the U.K., as well as in the U.S. and Canada, when people mention "interracial relationships," they most often mean black-white -- paticularly black men and white women. Rarely do we talk about other combinations: White-Asian, Black-Native, Latino-Black, etc. We don't think twice about those tandems, yet for some reason, black-white combos remain controversial.

As the son of an interracial couple (African American mom, Native American dad), I've never understood why some people have such a problem with it. Is it really "racist" to be erotically turned on by people of one ethnicity but not by people of another? I sure as hell don't think so.

I freely admit being most strongly attracted to Caucasians. It's an attraction that dates back to my encounters with the hippies back in the '60s. They were the first white people I met who accepted me as I was and I eventually fell deeply in love with them (A love affair that continues to this day).

I was literally bullied out of pursuing a relationship with a white girl while I was in high school (It was 1968 and my school was racked by violent racial tensions in the immediate aftermath of Dr. Martin Luther King's assassination). I was attacked and beaten to a pulp -- not by white kids, but by black kids ("Wassamattawitchoo? Sistuhs ain't goodenuff for ya?").

I refused to yield to their demand that I date black girls, but at the same time I wasn't willing to get beaten to a pulp again, either. So I remained a loner throughout my high school years -- leading some to suspect, by the time I was in my senior year, that I was gay, but back then, nobody could prove it (I did, in fact, come out of the closet a decade later).

Now that I'm in my 50-something decade, I could care less what other people think of my relationships; If they have a problem with it, it's THEIR problem, not mine. There isn't a damn thing they can do about it.

-- Skeeter

 

Skeeter, actually when I spoke of interracial relationships I wasn't thinking of any particular combination. My own interracial relationship was with an east Asian girl. However, "interracial" porn always tends to be black men with white women. Why I have no idea!

I agree that the race we're attracted to has nothing to do with racism. I actually believe that very few of the things people consider "racist" are really based on racism. For example, when people of two races have an argument and yell out "racist" insults, I don't think these insults are based on racial hatred.

I am not in any way a racist, yet I discriminate against everyone I know. I acknowledge the way people look. If someone looks different to me, then I'm aware of it, and I may mention it. It doesn't come from racism, it's just observation. For example, when I look at your photo I notice that you hair and skin are a different colour to mine. I may describe you by these differences. I may make a joke about those differences. Those differences are very obvious to me because I come from a culture of predominantly white people. But that doesn't mean I hate people who don't look like me! Calling it racism is just silly.

And silliest of all is calling sexual attraction racist! The definition of racism is fear or hatred of a race. In what possible way could finding someone attractive be seen as fear or hatred!?

Personally, I find women of my own race the least attractive. My favourite women are East Asian women. I think this is perfectly natural. It's all genetics. We are instinctively attracted to genetic diversity, which makes our offspring healthier. On the other hand though we are also drawn to partners with similarities to ourselves. So some prefer their own type.