ha. Me. I get what I want when I want from my guy. Hes ok with that because its all I usually want anyway. The other half of the time we're playing with the kids or taking care of them... if they fall asleep though forget it... I'm the boss. lol
I want my guy to be in charge.... we haven't had a lot of opportunities to play this out though. I do prefer the guy being in charge most of hte time. I think that if I were to date a chick I'd probably be the one in charge though, I'm just usually pretty dominant in most of my relationships (friendships etc) but not in gf-bf stuff
depends who has the most energy at the time? sometimes its good to swap a bit lol. (not in the swinging way)
Probably him more than me...I'll tell him I want him NOW, but I let him take care of the how most of the time...he's good at that.