promiscuity and sexual activity in the tenth grade

Discussion in 'The Whiners' started by buxillafion, Oct 18, 2005.

  1. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Except back then, the life expectancy was quite low, so it was the norm to be married with children before you were even out of your adolescent years. You faced death at an earlier age, but with the advances in medical technology and ways of living, we have been able to survive much longer.
     
  2. spooner

    spooner is done.

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    But sexual maturity (puberty) kicks in earlier because of better nutrition/weird hormones.
     
  3. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    same here (but i didnt marry him, thank god :D)
    Penises scared me when I was younger and didnt want to deal with all that sexual crap and stuff...knew i wasnt ready and had other things id rather be doing..(which was really nothing :D)

    I commend young kids not having sexual intercourse until they are older or atleast mentally ready (though i dont really care how old you are when you have sex cause its none of my business so dont think im all like, "eww gross you have to wait till you are older, I hate you"...haha :D cause im not...and because each and every single person is different)
     
  4. greengoddess

    greengoddess Nature Freak!

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    unfortuanately I lost mine at 14 the guy was an ass, I had been going out with him for almost a year and he was pressuring me really bad, and my dumb ass did it, and I regretted him being my first ever since, so if you're not ready than don't do it, only months later I met my husband and I wished I had waited for him.
     
  5. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Definitely. It's amazing how much more physically mature pre-adolescents and adolescents are now as compared to years back.
     
  6. sitareric

    sitareric Banned

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    Hmmmmm.... I lost mine when i was 17...It was really beautiful... I really loved the girl and still do, she was 16... we were both virgins.. and i coudlnt see how it could have been more perfect...

    I think the thing is the difference between making love, and sex... kids having sex (25 and under) can lead to places in ones mind that arent as fruitful as they could be... I think we need to make love to ourselves and know ourselves completely and truly, to make anything meaningful with sex..
     
  7. greengoddess

    greengoddess Nature Freak!

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    I agree completely!! you said that very well sitareric
     
  8. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    That's exactly how I felt. I just didn't feel ready, and even when I finally did break down and do it, I still wasn't 100% sure that I was comfortable with my decision. Not that I was forced in any way whatsoever mind you, because it was all my free will, but I still had some doubts in the back of my head. Lucky for me though, I landed an awesome guy and ended up being his wife. :D

    But yeah, some people just feel ready earlier than others.
     
  9. sitareric

    sitareric Banned

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    Thank you, you are a very far out goddess
     
  10. greengoddess

    greengoddess Nature Freak!

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    lol well thank you! ;)
     
  11. sitareric

    sitareric Banned

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    Shmelcome
     
  12. canadian_boy

    canadian_boy Brohn Zmith

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    Last year in biology, we analyzed our saliva and the teacher told us that there were once living spermatozoids in the saliva of a girl .. So that was like very fresh :eek:
     
  13. all_rhodesian_reject

    all_rhodesian_reject Sonskyn Elvis

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    can you tell me what she said exactly in french please :D
     
  14. canadian_boy

    canadian_boy Brohn Zmith

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    She (My teacher) said something like:
    Aujourd'hui, nous allons analyser la salive humaine ..
    Vous allez voir qu'elle est composee de differents enzymes et constituants .. A ce sujet, j'ai une anecdote a vous conter . Il y a quelques annees , quand nous avons fait la m?me chose, j'ai regarde l'echantillon de salive d'une fille et il y avait des spermatozoides qui bougaient ..
     
  15. all_rhodesian_reject

    all_rhodesian_reject Sonskyn Elvis

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    shit thats a bit too long for my sig....man and i just wanted something in french....
     
  16. sitareric

    sitareric Banned

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    Lmao.... just put this in :p Lol "j'ai regarde l'echantillon de salive d'une fille et il y avait des spermatozoides qui bougaient.." ~School Teacheur
     
  17. gandhiwars

    gandhiwars Member

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    Just take your time and be you.
    If your not ready for sex and you have it, you'll ruin it for yourself. It is something which is beautiful. Don't just throw yourself out there.
     
  18. stoned_immaculate

    stoned_immaculate Member

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    most of my friends tend to lose their virginity at 15-16. ive always thought about it and decided taht i would do it when the time was right, not when i thought i was old enough etc...i lost my irginity at 15 and i dont regret it one bit!
     
  19. SunshineLovePeace

    SunshineLovePeace all you need is love

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    yeah, i agree with that completely. I lost my virginity at 14 and I wish I would have waited for my boyfriend now, because we make love, we dont just have sex which is what I had done before him. I really regret losing it so young but theres no changin it now so oh well :rolleyes:
     
  20. all_rhodesian_reject

    all_rhodesian_reject Sonskyn Elvis

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    k :D
     

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