There's a really fat kid in one of my classes that I can't stand

I don't know why, but everything he says and the way he acts....I just want to punch him for some reason. I feel really bad about it, I mean, I don't even know this kid's name, but I've absolutely hated him from the moment we met.

 

do you think he's interested wether you like him or not?

 

0_o That would suck ass.....if he is, that's his own damn problem.

 

go talk to him. it'll help understand your hate. maybe your subconscious detected something wrong about him. the talk should bring it to the surface. maybe you'll end up hugging him or punch him in the face. that will liberate the negative energy from your brain.
that was Dr Freud talking.

 

Sometimes there are people that just give us really negative vibes. You can't always put your finger on what it is that turns you off about someone, but it happens.

 

start swingin'

 

i can totally dig the bad vibes thing man. like what you should do is think that mabey he has some childhood problems or something that makes him act the way he does. mabey when he was younger he had trouble making friends or something so he acts out in weird ways. it might not make any sense to you but in his head it does.

 

Does he remind you of yourself maybe?

 

ive judged a lot of people before knowing them, i thought that they were just assholes and after i got to know them they were pretty cool people, and other times i got to know them and they really were just complete assholes

 

oh man theres a dude who gets my train every morning...and i swear its all i can do not to whallop him....

 

there is this real weird fat girl in my class who sits next to me but she has a lazy eye so it looks like shes always staring at me even tho i dont think she is,or is she?

 

man i hate alot of fat people, not the loveable ones but the annoying greasy fat ones.

 

i hear you brother, some are ok but alot are weird.

 

soemtimes you just plain take a dislike to someone. you can't help it. i find that the best thing to do is just let it slide. try not to obsess over it. we're not here on this planet to be everyone's friend. just don't be a dick.

 

because he's fat??

 

Could it be that he is secreting an offensive smell that you don't like? Obese people tend to sweat more, but sweat in itself doesn't smell. The hypothalamus in the brain is just releasing heat when it's getting hot. It's when the sweat mixes with bacteria in the skin that it gets pungent. And since your classmate is going through puberty it's even worse because there are special hormones in the armpits that make it worse. Try spraying some air freshener just as you're entering the classroom. It might hold the key to your problems.

 

I think it may have to do with the fact that he was belittling one of the most intelligent professors there.....I don't know. I'm just not talking to him, hopefully the feeling will go away.

 

We get that type at the ministry all the time. You're doing the right thing by ignoring him.

 

Belitting= Insulting

Insulting people doesn't accomplish anything, with the exception of 1 word, stupid, which sounds stupid if you use it and if you tell stupid people their stupid they will become angry, so you must phrase it as such "unable to learn".

 

We do live in a 'politically correct' society after all