I hate kids.

wtf...
um im sorry, but you went on how you hate kids and I said I dislike teens and you are giving me a lecture.. so what if I find some teens annoying, you hate kids...so whats the difference...ya know..
whats with that last comment, are you special or something...cause I can not understand how you say that last comment, but you made a thread about hating kids...wtf...
I guess its cause you are a teen perhaps....hmmm i dont know, you tell me why you have a problem with me disliking some teens, when you hate kids...

wanna hold hands?

bassist, I must say we butt heads alot but i enjoy arguing with you at times, you got spunk...

 

LOL, it was basically because those little adorable kids evolve into teens. I was also in a bad mood...so yeah.

Sure, let's be pals.

 

I agree. I can handle certain kids (my cousins and stuff) but most kids I cannot stand. And I have already decided Im not the motherly type so therefore, I will not be overpopulating the world even more either.

 

Did I mention sticky? They're sticky. And always touching everything you don't want them to. Who here would rather have a pet than a child?

 

i must ask about yer sig, is that yer van?

if so. GIVE IT TO ME!


man i want one of those sooooo bad

 

I hate adults. I feel sad to think that these cute little elvish things turn into nasty backstabbing power mongering hateful adults. Kids are full of magic. Adults are full of shit - and yes, I am an adult.


Also, about parental rearing and the kids "bad" behavior - I have two young boys that are two years apart. My first son was a very difficult little boy. He was loud, screaming all of the time, impolite, you name it. Thankfully he has mostly grown out of that stage and is more of a pleasure to be around. My second son was always quiet and well behaved. He learned his manners by the age of one. They are born with their own personalities. Some parents get lucky and have all well behaved children. Consider yourself lucky. The kids that are naturally more difficult - I don't believe in beating children, but I also have seen that the most difficult children do not behave better when beaten. It takes years of consistent work at improving their beavior sometimes to make small changes in how they behave. Again if you have well behaved kids, I think you should just consider that you have a good lot in life instead of judging other parents.

 

you know, my daughter is terrified of boys because there's two different boys that have gone out of their way to terrorize then beat her. and here's the thing: the parents just WATCHED! i couldn't believe it. once i stepped in a dragged the little bastards off my daughter, the parents did nothing. unreal. "boys will be boys" does not apply.

 

I see your point there!

 

makes me nuts. i actually just plain adore kids, though i can get overloaded and turn into a drill sergeant when there's too many. but i'd have to say that the lousy behavior of children is pretty epidemic here in durango. i just don't know what's going on with them.

 

i hate kids too, but im going to reproduce anyhow. because i know my kids will be an excellent contribution to the world. 90% of the time, your kids are a perfect relfection on you. so i think my kids will be hella chill.

 

I hated small children until I had my own. I used to work in retail and all they would do is come in and destroy my store and throw tantrums when they didn't get what they wanted. I wonder now why the parents weren't watching the kids while they were tearing up everything that they could get their hands on. The key is waiting until you're ready, your feelings might change the older you get. I said that I would never want to have any little "brats", EVER! Now I have two and they are the sweetest babies ever. Not all kids are bad, I think that it really depends on the parenting.

 

earthymama, you will be rewarded one day, in the not too distant future, (those darlings grow up fast!) for your good sense of mothering with adult people who call you mom and love you to pieces! Everything you are doing is right on. I raised mine the very same way and they turned out awesome. And i can honestly say i was never one of those that just longed to have babies, but i was blessed with three and i thank god for them everyday of my life.