Confused 'bout my sexuality

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by Borgy, Oct 19, 2005.

  1. Borgy

    Borgy Member

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    I don't know!! I think I'm bi 'cause I like girls and boys! I'm equally attracted to both! So I'm not sure if I'm gay, obsessed with sex, or really bi!!
    I would apreciate some advice!
     
  2. TheMistress

    TheMistress Senior Member

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    you will figure it out, my advice is to try being with a guy and try being with a girl. you dont have to like each experience equally to be bisexual, but you cant be totally disgusted by one. (btw, Im not saying to base this on one guy and one girl) Can you see yourself falling in love with a man and even getting married or comitted? what about with a women? if you said yes 100% to each than I would say that you are bi..congrats, and enjoy it, you have no limitations when it comes to love.

    I see you are from madrid...do you like Dali? ever been to his art galleries?
     
  3. Borgy

    Borgy Member

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    Thanks for the advice, very usefull!!
    I do like Dali! and I've been to many exhibitions of his work! Not only in Madrid but in Barcelona as well!
     
  4. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    i am so jealous of you...:)
     
  5. TheMistress

    TheMistress Senior Member

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    glad to help.
    I love Dali, your lucky to have him so close!
     
  6. SageDreamer

    SageDreamer Senior Member

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    If you like both sexes, you sound bisexual to me. Just relax and enjoy it. There's no requirement to come to any decision or wear a label any time soon. I just hope you fall in love with someone nice and be happy about it.
     
  7. Green

    Green Iconoclastic

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    I wonder what people are like in Spain.
     
  8. Borgy

    Borgy Member

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    Jajajajajajaj! wel just ask me then!
     
  9. hippypaul

    hippypaul Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    If you are physically turned on by both sexes - seems to me like you are bisexual - lucky dog - gives you double the playing field (grin)
     
  10. wiggy

    wiggy Bitch

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    is it such a big problem if you are?

    at the end of the day theres nothing you can do about just accept it and get on with life. It does sound like you are - do you have any gay friends cause talk to them - they know what you are going through and should offer loads of advise - good luck xXx
     
  11. thedude21

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    I know what you mean with liking both. I like guys and would make out with one but i'd only ever have sex with a girl. I did that a few times it was great why change anything. I figure for me its easier to just act 100% straight, but whatever floats your boat...
     

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