girls who go off pill to have a baby

I was just wondering how many girls out there in relationship's deliberately go off the pill to fall pregnant without telling their boyfriends/husbands. ?

I had one girl lie to my brother about it and now he's a dad. His girlfriend totally lied so she could have a baby.

I don't know how many girls will respond to this thread given that if they say that they themselves have done it before will probably scare of their own boyfriends/husbands or guys girls are seeing. :H


Warlock

 

man, that's nasty. low down, skanky nasty. I'd never pull that shit


then again, I don't want kids, so yay for birth control!

 

i dont think most girls COULD do that. i could i couldnt.

but i know it happens.

 

wow. thats fucked up.



dudes can be stupid as hell sometimes too.

 

yeah people can be fucked......

 

*nods* that's usually how they get pregnant......

Low down trick to pull on yer bro' warlock....hope he has the brains to fight for sole custody of the child..'cos it's mum has serious problems...

 

I got pregnant twice while on birth control pills & once while using an IUD
all I seem to get from birth control is sons.

 

Yeh my brother wasn't very happy that she lied to him. He told me they both had this big arguement. It is indeed very low for her to do that to my brother. Actually Oz my brother hates children so he sure won't be fighting for sole custody.

When he told me that his girlfriend was pregnant he said that he was amazed that he was still with her even now.

Yes his girlfriend does have problems but so does he, major depression, Chronic fatigue and neither of them work.

I even spoke to a girl from another site who told me that where she works one of the girls working there with her said she had done the same thing to her boyfriend and that another girl at the same place was thinking about doing it also.

 

That happened to a (guy) relative of mine, the girl did the same thing 2 more times to 2 different guys....finally got one of them to marry her skanky ass.

 

That's really fucked up.

 

wow that's really really low and nasty!
i couldn't live with myself if i'd ever do that!

 

what a bitch. my oldest brother got a daughter that way. he has no relationship with him now because he was a shitty dad and the mother was a psycho bitch. in fact, the girl has pretty much written off my entire family because one nasty bitch decided to script my 19 year old's brother's life that way. i only know it was deliberate because she told us so. i know you can get pregnant on BCP's, i did when i was 15 and miscarried. but to deliberately do that to someone is total shit.

 

Well he damn well better get over his chronic fatugue and depression real quick and find himself a job, cuz hes gonna have a kid now. Maybe it was wrong for her to have gone off the pill and tricked him, but he is the one who created that baby, so its just as much his responsibility as it is hers. All this will turn out to be is another deadbeat loser whos "depressed" and doesn't want to support his kid. not much of a surprise really. but thats the last thing this world needs, is another one.

 

yeah, it was wrong of her to do that BUT this is reality. Right and wrong have little to do with it. If someone really doesn't want kids, they should take measures that they can control ( like a condom).

I don't know about you guys but I'm serious about my money. I can love and trust you all day but if it comes to my money......sorry. Its important enuff to me that I handle it myself. Guys should do the same thing with their sperm if they don't want to be a dad

 

Yeh I know King he has no choice now but to get off his bum and find work chronic fatigue and depression or no chronic fatigue and depression. I think this will be a pivotal point in his life that will change him for the better.

Warlock

 

At least he acknowledges that his life needs to drastically change. thats a step in the right direction.

 

MANY women do this.

Two of my friends got into this mess.

I mean, look at it this way. "Oh! Oops, I didn't take my pill - oh, yeah, and, by the way, you get to pay for me and this kid for eighteen years. If you try NOT doing so, your wages will be garnisheed, you'll lose any licences to work, your driver's licence, etc."

 

If I didn't love her or if she wasn't dead sexy... I'd make her abort it.

 

er, and how do you plan on 'making' her abort it? knock her out and strap her down... I doubt any credible doctor would be willing to perform an abortion on an unwilling woman, anyone who would do it would probably end up killing her as well

 

Why the hell would she want to have my baby if I didn't want anything to do with it?