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Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Willy_Wonka_27, Jul 9, 2004.

  1. Willy_Wonka_27

    Willy_Wonka_27 Surrender to the Flow

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    i always get my hopes up and then they end up liking my best friend...everytime :(
     
  2. LivingLegends

    LivingLegends Senior Member

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    that is so sad. [​IMG]
     
  3. ImaPeach

    ImaPeach Member

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    same thing used to happen to me. the trick is to not get ur hopes up in the first place :)
     
  4. Willy_Wonka_27

    Willy_Wonka_27 Surrender to the Flow

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    but if i dont get my hopes up then how am i suposed to find anyone in the first place?
     
  5. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    well i donno if this would work, but try not liking anyone. then a cool gurl might start to like you, but dont make it obvious that you like her too. just be really good friends with her, and after a while neither of you would be able to resist eachother. i know this from a personal experience, even tho the relationship turned out to be the most hurtful thing thats ever happened to me, but hey whatever right?:p
     
  6. ImaPeach

    ImaPeach Member

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    ok, what i said before was pretty harsh - sorry! But why dont you just quit looking at every pretty girl as a potential date? That gets annoying to us after a while y'know. Do what the dude above said and just focus on making friends. And remember that the same thing happens to girls too! So next time, why not take a closer look at the friends of the girl you're diggin on? And you're a sweetie, so if they dont want you, they're obviously mentally disturbed and not worth the hassle :p

    Ah.... 'tis the stuff of teen movies! :rolleyes:
     
  7. IcE-MaN

    IcE-MaN Member

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    i agree with Peach on this matter,tis the best thing to do it also used to happen to me alot to your not the only one i promise.
    too may times people forget the importance of friends that we want to rush into more things seriously and skip being friends..thus usually causese a problem thats why many relationships dont work.
    Dont get me wrong i do believe in love at first sight thing myself buts thats another song so to speak.As Peach said consentrate on making friends first then if applicable move on to further feelings but if its not ment to be at least you still have friendship and thats a plus. more friends the better.Looks arent the important thing either it the heart that makes love not looks....wish you luck bro' peace....
     
  8. Willy_Wonka_27

    Willy_Wonka_27 Surrender to the Flow

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    i am always friends with a girl b4 i like her...
    my friend knows all of the girls i like and they end up liking him...i dont get it

    not to talk bad about my best friend, but, he cant keep a girl longer than a week and i think i would be a much better boyfriend than him...he mostly cares about getting somewhere sexualy with a girl and all i think about is treating a girl right and having fun...
     
  9. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    well that sucks, but thats how most gurls/guys are. in their teenage years anyways
     
  10. SweetSoul

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    Some day it will all turn around...just wait and see...you sound like a really nice boy...and i am sure you will turn out to be a damn good man...and the women will all want to date you...so turn that frown upside down! :)
     
  11. ImaPeach

    ImaPeach Member

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    well the smart girls will soon figure that out. don't worry!!
     
  12. magicmonkey

    magicmonkey Member

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    LOL!!! Start hanging out with some really ugly people with poor moral fibre, you probably won't get laid any more but then neither you'll be ahead of your friends at least!!

    On a serious note:
    Chasing never gets you anywhere, just about every man and woman on the face of the planet has had to learn that one at some point. Just relax, simple as that.
     

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