Feeling a bit embarrassed about homosexual fantasies...

I'm a heterosexual male, or at least that's what I thought. I find women to be very sexually attractive. I can fall in love with a woman, and feel emotional longing. I've never lusted after a man, nor have I been in love with one, but recently, I've been fantasising a lot about having sex with a man, or perhaps multiple men, and I'm wondering if any other guys out there do it? I think in my life I would like to have sex with a man, so I can have the experience of being penetrated, though I would never feel for them emotionally. And recently I'm becoming obsessed with the idea of anal sex.

Does anyone else have anything like this?

 

im physically attracted to men, but the thought of a prolonged make out session or marrying one or hell even jsut holding hands wlakind down the street makes me uncomfortable...a cock in my mouth though....i could deffiantely handle that
i think its normal, don't fret.

 

Yeah. I have pretty much the same thing, just reversed. As in, I'm mostly homosexual, but could probably have sex with women too.....with no real emotional attachment, that is.

 

I think everyone has them at some time in their life they all just don't have the gutz to admit it!!

 

Yeah of course.

I've done it. (I didn't take it)

It's alright. It feels good physically but a man just can't give that extra, oo oh... shuga shuga.

 

Don't be ashamed, just express yourself!

lol.

No seriously.

lol.

No really!

:chuckles:

No seriously!

lol.

ok ok, I'm serious this time.

(hehe man fantasies)

No no, I mean it.

Be free.

 

I've fantasized about some same sex situations, too. It's never really bothered me, though. I can actually see myself feeling okay about minor things like giving another man a handjob or something, if the situation was right. Hell, I've done that when I was a kid, and I'm sure many has similar experiences during their own childhood/teen years.

That said, I DO prefer girls since I consider myself to be a heterosexual.

 

that's so true! I think there's nothing wrong with a guy having fantasies about sex with another man. I think it just makes you more of a man to be able to admit it

 

I don't think you should feel ahsamed. I reckon everyone feels that way, male or female, it's part of human sexuality to be curious. Its society that has made heterosexuality the norm, that's why heterosexual men in particular, feel it is so wrong to have homosexual feelings. what about girls? society no longer frowns upon lesbian tendencies, so more girls are open to explore their lesbian side. don't worry and enjoy your sexuality.

 

that's hot. er, heh.... I think it's a good thing, even better that you can admit. nothign wrong with having a well rounded sexuality. Just think, if your gf ever wants a mmf threesome you won't flip out over it I think there are a fair number of chicks out there who want to try that, you willing to give men a shot in whatever capacity is pretty darn cool

 

Don't freak out, you're not the only one...lately I've had these constant recurring fantasies about sucking a guy....maybe someday I'll do something about it.

 

I think I must have an extra chemical in my brain because I can't recall ever having had a homosexual desire or fantasy. Now, I have had dreams, however. But, I have had dreams about fucking everyone, so that doesn't count.

I highly addicted to lesbians, though. I think I may be a lesbian in a man's body. I obsess over every inch of the female body. It's scary, really.

But, hey...like I always say...BE WHO YOU ARE AND DON'T BE ASHAMED.

 

i agree with dangermoose

 

i cant say ive ever had homosexual fantasies

 

And just remember that these are just FANTASIES!!! Plenty of people fantasize about various situations, but when given the opportunity to fulfill them decide that it's not what they thought. You could have the experience you were hoping for and be completely turned off by it. But that's okay.

Regarding anal... ya might want to try having your gf penetrate you if that's what turns you on about sex with men. Contrary to popular belief, not all gay men are into anal.

 

And not all men who like it when their gf sticks a finger in their ass are open to the idea of gay sex. Anal penetration isn't gay, it's just associated with being gay therefore it's "taboo".

 

I'm a gay man with heterosexual tendencies trapped in a fifteen year old girl's body. It makes for good times.

Oh, and Seamus.. go bone a dude. You'll know pretty quick.

 

yep, i don't know if i would call it 'normal', cause what is normal really? but i would say it's a hell of a lot more common than people think.
and i agree with you one hundred percent.... the feminine form is so awesomley beautiful, i could never give that up - if i were forced between going down a hallway to have sex with a hot chick or going down a hallway to have sex with hot guy, i would pick the chick anyday - but i think about having sex with a guy (or guys) all the time. It's hot.

 

I am able to recognize an attractive man when i see one, but it brings no feelings of attraction, only slight jealousy... which is normal and to be expected.... this is how it should be.... i dont have any problems with gays unless they have problems with me... i just dont understand how you could be attracted to another man... thats all...

 

I'm basically the same way. I've had gay fantasies, I've looked at some gay porn, and I dunno... I think it's just part of curiosity and stuff. I think that the closest label to what I am is bi, but then again, I really can't see myself having like an emotional relationship with a guy, just a physical one. So I'm really not sure about what I am. But for now I'm comfortable with it.

Just know that just because you're feeling this way now doesn't mean it's permenant. That's why I don't like labels, because you might be feeling bi for a while, but then you might be only feeling gay, and then feeling completely straight, and... peoples' sexualities change. So don't think of this and like tell people that you're bi, because it may not be true in the longrun, maybe only for the time being.