if you were with a girl, and you really loved her but haven't had sex with her, do you think that its best to wait till marriage, or do you think its better to 'test the goods' so to speak to see if you are compatable in bed... or do you think that whole 'compatability' thing is just bullshit, and a good fuck is a good fuck?
i believe in sex before marriage, i jsut chose to wait till i found love. im going to marry the woman i had actual sex with first. mmhmmm, and theres not a damn thing any of y'all an do about it!! muwahaha personally, i would wanna wait at least ayear before marriage, and a year without some sort of sexual contact would be very...frustrating....by sex do you mean all forms of sexuality or merely intercourse? if you merely meant intercourse, ims ure you would be able to tell how good they'll be in bed from the types of foreplay you do and wont neccesarily have to have intercourse to know if you're compatible in bed
sex before marriage, absolutely. If I'm not compatible in the bed with them, the relationship just isn't gonna work out. guess i'm too sexual a gal to not have sex with someone before marriage
I think that waiting until marriage is a respectable choice, and after my last partner, I vowed that I would not have sex again until I was with the man I knew I was going to marry. Lucky for me, he came along in the nick of time, lol. But, I like sex too much to go very long without (we're going on one and a half weeks already! It's horrible...I miss it so much...lol). I don't know...I guess my whole views on it are sort of hard to explain. I don't have anything against waiting until marriage, but I think I'd go nuts. My libido is way too strong to handle such a commitment of sorts. Haha.
I think if you really do love her, then it's a beautiful thing to share, and you reach a new level of intimacy in your relationship. If you're planning to marry her anyway, I reckon it's quite okay to try it out beforehand. And to some extent it is important to be compatible sexually, 'cause that's what differentiates a romantic relationship from pure friendship/companionship.
i dont see the point in waiting to get married to have sex, why would you do that? Actually i don't see the point in getting married either.
if you get married and have never had sex, and then you have sex and realize that your partner really isn't an erotic person at all, but you decide thats the relationship you want--you're screwed big time. i think waiting until you're married is a mindless social moral that doesn't make any sense for anyone planning on having any kind of control over their sexuality. short answer: have sex first.
Well this is a love and sex board so I dont think you will get good reason to wait till marriage. Unplanned pregnancy, Std's (1 in 5 sexually active people have herpes and you have that for life). That being said you just have to know the risks and take the precautions. Always use a condom! I wish I would have cause once you dont wear one you aint going back.
