Right on-as long as a chics doing it or even if your doin it and not thinkin bout a guy-YOUR NOT GAY.
but, even if they do happen to think of a guy while being anally masterbated by a womyn, that wouldn't make then gay. it's just a thought. i am sick and tired of people being so afraid of being 'gay'. what makes a person gay or straight? just because they have a better bond with one sex or the other. FUCK THAT. i will not base my judgement on people because of sex. most people do. they are very sexist. don't try to deny it. if you are 'straight' you are sexist. you say 'i wont date you because you are a guy' or vice virsa. sorry sir/ma'am, but you're a homophobe and a sexist phew, sorry, just my ranting. don't hate me if this offends you. just something i thought needed to be said with this said, i am not gay, bi, or straight. i do not base who i date on sex, nationality, origin, color, hair length, hair color, nose size or any other stupid shit you can come up with
Now that you put it that way-I agree with the not straight,bi, or gay... SO what can we be called...?
It is a mistake to think the solution to prejudice is to get rid of usefull lables. Gay people are still gay, the fact that we call them gay isnt the problem. Its that we attach other meanings to that, all that a person being gay means is that they are sexually atracted only to their own sex, using it to mean that is in no way bad, using it to mean weak, stupid, freaky, or any thing else is bad. Bisexual simply means you can be atracted to people of either sex. Its not a bad distinction, but a useless one, because i think everyone is atleast a bit gay and a bit strait. I don't feel atracted to any men, but i think in exactly the right circumstances i might be atleast a little bit, even if its just a thought thats enough that you cant say your 100% strait and 0% gay, and who cares, i will almost certainly never want to do anything with a man, but theres really no point in a seperation, that just gets confusing anyhow, cause what do you call someone who likes transexuals, or transvestites, or who is only interested in their own sex in the context of a threesome including a member of the oposite sex as well, i know there are names for each of those things, but what are they good for. As for the anal fingering thing, its homosexual if a man does it to you and heterosexual if a woman does it, because thts what defines those words.