Most things that are free suck. Fact. AIrs cool. Thats about it. Love ain't free. Loves a lot of pain in the ass work. If you've never been so fed up that you've bought plane tickets, and the only thing stopping you from getting the fuck out of there was that she was the one who remembers your ATM password, you've never been in love.
It's kinda like Dylan's Highway 61 Revisited... "Now the rovin' gambler he was very bored He was tryin' to create a next world war He found a promoter who nearly fell off the floor He said I never engaged in this kind of thing before But yes I think it can be very easily done We'll just put some bleachers out in the sun And have it on Highway 61." Except we're not trying to create war, we're trying to create peace. But what you're going for has never been engaged in before.