iv met this girl

and i think shes amazing. im 17 and shes 14. but if u saw her u'd thik she was 16 or 17. all she wasnts is sex tho and i aint willing to do i with her cause of her age. what shood i do

 

Well, if ALL she wants is sex, then you should sit her down and tell her you want to actually establish some decent emotional bond with her as well as being physical. As for your age, you're still 17 yourself, and there is only 3 years difference, so I personally don't see much problem there... But that doesn't mean other people will have the same take on this. I'm just more open-minded about age issues. I wasn't called a "net-pedo"*rolls eyes and sighs in disgust* for nothing, ya know... lol

But I personally think the most important thing is how BOTH of you feel about this....potential(?) relationship. Talk to her about it, and talk LOTS.

Good luck

 

if it was in america ye i spose it wood b ok b cuz we wood both b underage. as im in the uk the age of concent is 16 so im legal and shes not.

 

17 and 14 sound like very different places. And a 14 year old who only wants sex (not just has sex on the brain a lot, but only wants sex not a real relationship) is a little worriesome. Is she on any birth control? Knows how to use a condom? Been tested for STD's regularly? It just doesn't sound like a good girl to go for unless you can build a real, meaningful relationship. Even then, you two may be in too different places to really make it work

 

iv found out today that shes only just come out of court a couple weeks back cos this guy fucked her wen she was 13,i certainly dont want that to happen to me. she is a really sweet girl just a little too outgoing for a 14 year old. i doubt shes on birth control,but i think she knows how to ue a condom.if not i do. i just dunno, i really like her but i dont think it will work

 

14? dont' yer think yer should be setting yer sights a lil'......higher?


14, sounds more like yer adopting a kid than starting a relationship.....

 

yes.....a 17 yr old adopting a 14 yr old kid.........

i see no problem with the age difference seeing as im 16 and my boyfriend is 18, but maybe the thing about how shes a nympho is bad. but im a nymph too, only thing is i want an actualy relationship.

 

what happen to all that free love,age does not matter.that's the goodthing about free love

you must be pretty hot for her to be all sprung up on you...

 

well three years during these ages can be a lot. You might be ready for sex but a 14 in my opinion is not ready. I would wait.... and tell her how you feel about this , in a way that is not offending to her

 

Dont do it man. You risk going to jail.

 

Espically if she gets mad at you and decides to tell daddy.

 

he can only go to jail when he turns 18 though, fuck her while you can.

 

i can go to jail now im in uk mind. i dont want her to tell her dad......i have already bumped into him once......she was in my car and i kept her out one and a half hours after she was suposed to be in lets just say he wasnt happy

 

yer i no i should be, i never imagined ma self goin out wit a 14 year old. but if you saw her you wouldnt have thought she was. shes about 5'8/9" pretty well developed shall we say, she was walkin round town with a bottle of vodka in her hand, peirced lip, and her mate is almost 16 and there always together so i took it they were the same age......so i just guessed she was older. no one told me she was 14 untill after i got off with her.

 

HAHAHAHAHAH

 

Bone her.

You'll probably get the clap.

Pre-school prostitute!

 

ha ha.....yer. i just dunno what to do, il see how i feel nxt time we meet up

 

I'm not sure what trigonometry has to do with this thread.

 

Go ahead and have your lawyers draw something up so I can get busy "goblin that knob."

 

maybe if you had a bit more respect for them they wouldn't be as you put it bithces