iv met this girl

and as for the question in hand don't do anything with this girl your not completely comfortable doing

 

Ahaha, I've figured you to be like 16-17... How old are you?

Well I'd say, if you love her and she loves you... it's cool
But if you don't love her and she's 14, I think you should stay away...

 

i dont speak to my mum bout girls mainly cos she wood annoy me bout them, but she works wif someone i no who was there when i met this girl, so she knows all about it and she says the age difference is fine so its all good w00p

 

Definitely be careful, but don't let just the age difference turn you away. Do take into consideration, though, that she just got one guy into trouble, so she's got a history. Maybe it would be in your best interest to remain just friends with her for a couple of years. Is she really all that special or do you just dig her because she looks and seems more mature than a 14 year old? My best friend dug himself into a huge hole just because he thought this girl was much more mature than she really was (he was 20, she was 15) and she made his life a living hell once he realized exactly how old she really acted behind closed doors. Just be careful and heed the warning signs that have already been presented to you.

 

As Ramona has said above, the part that I'm worried about is the fact that she's already had one guy in a legal mishap. I still say you shouldn't let your age difference control your ptentially meaningful love life, but that's not to say that you don't have to be cautious of possible legal trouble, either. I always say communication is the most important thing in any relationship. Talk to her, and try to understand why she had to get herself into the legal situation.

Just for now, sex can take the backseat. Once you establish a reasonable level of trust with this girl, what you do with her is up to you, provided that you both understand the risks and still think this relationship will be worth it. I'm not going to be against it. I've been in a really meaningful, sweet, long-term relationship with a younger girl myself in the past, so I know things like thing COULD work.

 

I'm 29, still a teen at heart, lol. I'm just an anti-ageist.

 

forget the 14 yo jailbait
go get some experience with some older honeys

 

i do genuinly like her for who she is, she always happy makes me laugh she all in all a great girl, her looks are just a bonus. but i didnt know she was 14 till after i got off with her, things might have been diferent if i new first. but were goin out wif each other now spose il just see how things go.

 

when i was 17, i started dating a guy who was 21. it was one of the best relationships i've ever had. we connected on a great level, and the only people who had a problem with our age difference were his ex girlfriends. buttt.... it does alarm me as well that this girl has been in trouble before. it also isn't healthy for a 14 year old to only want sex. no matter how you try to excuse it away, thats simply not normal. you also said she was walking around town with a bottle of vodka in her hand. does this girl honestly sound like a good idea to you? i really hope not. both for your sake and hers. if you like younger girls, go for em. but not this one ok? she sounds like nothing but bad bad news.

 

I still think you should establish a more solid friendship with her and see what exactly is going on in her mind. It could be that she's really angry with a lot of things in her life(as with most teens...but to a greater degree, so to speak) and gets her frustration out by doing things she does. Or it could be that she's really looking for some genuine love, and she's confusing sex and love, thus, has come to a wrong conclusion that sex is everything. Or it could be both. It really is hard to tell since I don't know her personally.

But she at least seems to have some great qualities too, so I wouldn't completely shut her off without really finding out what exactly is up.

 

oh cool I kinda would never have guessed