You know what I observed? in the most cases , in a couple, the girl takes the initiative in everything..Have you ever noticed this? or I'm just wrong?!...
Of course. Most men don't wanna be publicly rejected and for all intents and purposes it's up to her.
I've heard from a couple of different sources that is usually the woman who makes the first move - it's just not necessarily obvious. Apparently us chicks use a lot more body language to send out signals than verbal language. lingering touches, etc
it's been my experience that you practically have to club a guy over the head and drag him by the hair back to your place to make him realize you're interested.
Well, in a world where some prosecutor lawyer will practically jail you if you can't say "Yes, I knew FOR SURE FOR SURE she was interested - I have a signed affidavit right here" and we're liable to be fired, jailed, etc. for making an unwelcome advance, you better believe we make D-A-M-N sure you DO in fact have to practically club us over the head.
sometimes, not all the time. My partner made the first move, but I guess I made avery obvious second move