How do u get over being dumped

Just wondering how other people get over it this is how i was thinking when i
was dumped. I try and take pride in my appearance, but i dont worry about
people frowning upon me because i mightnt fit in to their stereotype of what they think i sounld be like. I'm not going to live my life for anyone else. If i'm
not hurting anyone then why should i have to change my actions. I learnt a
long time ago that only person i have to answer to is myself. It takes a lot of
streagth to allow yourself to be true to who you are.Be aware of it. It's amazing how many things i've done for someone's approvel there's no such thing as normal follow your own path. I have just came out of a relationship and life is not fair and where all here to learn and experience life, we can go at any time, so live the moment

 

"dumping" is incredibly destructive, hurtful, and immature. One who dumps instead of breaking up is inevitably an incarnate of the devil, and the dumped should be happy that they got an early warning sign rather than spending their life with a person who is manipulative and cruel. I think it would be much easier to get over getting dumped than to get over a great relationship mutually ending.

 

Some loves you never get over. The soulmate loves. Others, my advice is to not fight it, what you're feeling. I think that makes emotional pain worse. Just let yourself feel it. If you want to cry then do, If you want to punch a wall then do. Just remember, it won't always hurt this much.

 

Put maggots in their favorite pair of shoes.

 

go and learn something new , do something exciting and pretty soon everything works out. this might sound like bullshit but try it but do learn from the experience.

 

Kill the bitch. Heh.

 

Yep, going to jail is the pefect way to get over things and put her out of your mind. Doh!

 

Who knows, you might meet some nice man who will make you his bitch.

 

Someone dumps you, yes it's devastating. But remember my friend, love is about timing. Never give up the fight, just when someone perfect comes along but dumps, remember there's someone even better out there, that wants you

 

Let whatever happens happen. That might sound obvious but don't assume things will go a certain way, that's a sure way of being heartbroken if they turn out differently.

 

Some great quotes in here ..... just what I needed to read. My ex and I decided it would be good for me to go see my dad in tasmania so she had time to get over her shattering previous breakup. Problem is, she got over me instead. Then she still wanted to stay best friends. Then she hit me with the "your stalking me" crap. Luckily for me, the reason for all this shit is that she's simply fucked in the head. I had known that for a long time and I went to Tasmania in order to commence the break up. I have two cars, so I had to drop one at my dad's place (I don't live anywhere). Still, I love her but at least I don't feel bad. It's a GOOD thing. *Phew* .....

 

How about a pet for company. I know this might sound silly, but "this" kind of companionship can work wonders in times like this. It has proven to reduce stress, having a pet.

 

Good one! I used to live in the country and spent hours or even days by myself (coz I had no money) and my pets were my best friends. I was at my dad's farm not long ago (before the break up) and I actually got more affection from the goats than I did from the girl!

 

Sometimes pets are better than bloody chicks And they don't take hours to get ready.

 

But you can't .... oh wait a minute, yes you can. It's just not socially acceptable.

Someone actually went to prison for having sex with a goat once. Or twice.

 

Now if you were talking sheep, i have a whole lot of Kiwi jokes i could be rolling out

 

Trickstar your so cool, thanks for all your replys.
I really mean it,you are one of a kind.

 

You bet ya arse. Who the hell wants to be like everyone else. I'd rather be different.


Reminds me of a saying. "I'm an individual, who the hell are you?"

 

But Trickster, although you have been wonderful, I am still cut up inside over Marie. She's fucking with my brain!! I think ...... she said yesterday, "I did want you back, (a week ago) but I don't anymore" and come to think of it, I didn't want her at all when it came time for me to take action. Ahh fuck this ..... I'm going to sleep.

 

If you realise you didn't want her, that's a breakthought don't you see? What's still getting to you is the way she has treated and still is treating you. To tell you she wanted you a week ago, says, she thinks she has the power here. Just act how you feel. Accept she hurt you, but you will get over this in time, you already have started to by admitting that you don't want her. But i'd think about putting distance between you. Unless she is completely self involved, she would knows she hurt you. I get the feeling she might still say silly things like she still wanted you back. Maybe just to see if you'd come running back to her if she wanted that. Don't give her the satisfaction. Like i said, whether you realise it or not, you have started to move on, you're stronger than you realise. Moving on, means you no longer think she is a major force in your life. If i was you, i would feel relief and satisfaction that you pulled yourself through it. Think of the positive. Don't shut yourself away. Go for a walk, go out with mates and have fun. Don't put too much pressure on yourself. Things will happen as they happen and just go with the flow