I live with my best guy friend and he's single. He's a total sweetheart but very, very shy around girls. He's always saying how lonely he is and I really want to see him happy. What can I do for him? How would I go about setting him up or finding him a mate?
suck him off in bed! blind fold him first so he doenst know its you and tell him the next mornig you invited a chick over to do it for him and she thought he had a great cock...maybe he'll use that new found confidence of having a great cock and go out and find a chica himself...
Why don't you want to be with him yourself? Your profile says your divorced afterall. Your already best friends, so think how much better you could be in a relationship.
My best friend/roommate just moved out today. It started off as fucking and eventually he wanted more. He fell in love with me and I didn't return the feelings. Now I have lost my best friend. Don't do it unless you are truely in love with him. Starting something with your best friend whom you live with and then having it goes sour sucks. In one day you are looking for a new roommate and a new best friend.
but none of that would have been a problem if you put a blind fold on him at night and insisted it was your 'friend' that was repeatedly fucking him...
yeah, being "set up" on a date usually sucks. it's always awkward...at least it is for me. just take him out, encourage him to be more outgoing. let him find someone in his own time. finding a mate isn't something that can be forced...it just has to...happen. in its own time. but he has to be the one to get out more and meet more people.
He's wonderful, but I am in a relationship with someone who also lives with us. I don't think it would go over well if I started doing both my roommates! But thanks for the advice, all!
I say...just leave him be. He may be lonely, but he'll find someone in good time. Time has a way of working things out....it's better to wait for the person that is right for you, than to be in a relationship just for the sake of having someone to keep you from being lonely.
That's the problem nowadays, people go into a relationship just to pass the time until someone better comes along.
i am kind of like your friend your describing Shy, real nice to everyone, not very outgoing at time, very respectful but still no love for me. I do have a lot of female friends who treat me like a "brother" or "best friend" and i would absolutely love it if she dropped her current boyfriend to ask me to start something serious. Was your previous bad experience with going from best friends to relationship with a guy that was a lot different than this guy your talking about? or did he have the same qualities. I think you should atleast tell your feelings to him. If hes shy like me, it will take a load off his shoulders if you make the first move to something more serious. Hope this helps. Peace
