For me love and sex go hand in hand. When you are truly in love for someone and them for you, Then you show it by a connecting of bodies mind and heart at the moment you are truly as one together and then sex is a beautiful thing. because youare wanting to give. picking a man/women out of a bar, to me is selfish, because the only one you are thinking off is "ME" or yourself in other words What is your views on the matter?
I agree that love and sex are related. But, "making love" and "fucking" is completely different. If me and my lady made love all the time, HOLY FUCK, would I get bored. I like it downright dirty and kinky. The love making can be for special occasions.
i see sex is the fruit of love..the best part of a relation. I usually call it "fuck" as i find it more passionate..the English English version of fuck is shag which i find quite funny so i often use it too..
I don't think love and sex really connect too much. I mean, I can love someone and have shitty sex with them, and I can be friends with someone and have fucking amazing sex. It's really weird. But then, I am pretty damned weird.
sex can be a beautiful expression of love yip that's all there is to it for me. and thats why i'm all for free/open relationships. free love. that doesnt mean go fuck everybody, anybody i don't care but having sex with people you love theres nothing wrong with that. sex without love is like masturbating with a stubborn dildo that doesnt mean it can't be good, sometimes a stubborn dildo is just what you need.
there is no thing like shitty sex but someone can be shitty when having sex which can be worked on..if you love someone you can make sex better even if it is shitty..
i totally disagree, you can't make sex better cuz you love someone, well you can get better in bed ofcourse but it has to click sexually as well.
Sexual Desire and Love are two different levels of energy entirely. Yes, they do complement each other and when combined lead to a third type of love energy, but Sexual desire by itself isn't a bad thing. Desire, though, is a powerful force, so controlling it is half the ball game.....no pun intended......
When sex and love are seperated, there is almost always a price to pay. For me sex is an expression of love, or it just does not happen. I learned my lessons on this one many years ago. Sex as an expression of love is the most powerfull metaphysical toll in the toolbox. Without love, it is just scattered and often destructive energy. Love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111 Jim
I don't love the guys I meet for 1-nite stands, but usually the sex was good. I love my kids & my brothers but never enough to have sex with them. Rapist don't love their victims, they might love the power & the sex tho. idk, but seems to me that sex & love are slightly different. love--you feel in your heart sex--you feel between your legs
I think its 2 different kinds of sex. When you really really love someone the sex is great cuz youre really connecting on a really deep level. But when your just having sex with someone its mostly about pleasuring yourself which is cool too. but i prefer to be in love.
I belive sex connects with love in that it has so much to do with trust. Trust is a huge part of love, one might even say love is a type of trust, though i wouldent go that far, love also has a lot to do with understanding, but that is part of sex too. And since sex effects, and is effected by trust and understanding so much, and so is love, they will effect eachother. Thats why sex is generally not as good without love. sex can build trust or destroy it. many people have trust but not understanding, or vice versa, and when two people like that have sex it just isnt quite the same, I havent expierienced every combination, Ive been with someone I understood very well, and trusted only a little, I didnt actually have sex with her, but what i did do with her seemed a bit awkward. Im rambling a lot but thats just my thoughts.
Some of the best sex I had was one night stands. Not a care in the world because I knew I would never be seeing them again.
