When...they don't like you......

Discussion in 'The Whiners' started by SurfhipE, Jul 12, 2004.

  1. SurfhipE

    SurfhipE Senior Member

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    Man, when you like someone and they don't know that you like them, or you know that they have a lot of girls that like them, or, you just feel like it couldn't happen with them...I dunno, it is just the WORST worst worst feeling ever. :(
    Sigh....even if you're friends with them, but you just kind of feel like they're already.....established or something, like they have their group of friends, they have girls that like them....I dunno....it's just the worst feeling, ever. You know?
     
  2. SweetSoul

    SweetSoul Member

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    does someone not like you?....because all the rest just kind of confused me somehow
     
  3. SurfhipE

    SurfhipE Senior Member

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    hehe I'm sorry. Yes, pretty much just ranting.
    That's the thing! I have no idea, one moment it seems like he does, the next he doesn't even talk hardly. I hate it.
     
  4. SweetSoul

    SweetSoul Member

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    Yes i know exactly what you mean...when i was in high school...there was this boy...who had dropped out ....but anyways...he would always invite me to his parties..and as soon as i showed up...he dropped everything he was doing and ran right for me...then within a little while...it was like i wasnt there...he had a completly different group of friends....so it really kind of sucked...but then i met some awsome people...because of that boy...but he still did that all the time...it made me so frustrated...but it always seemed like when some other guy was trying to hit on me ...he would reappear...uggg....but just dont let it bother you to much
     
  5. Orsino2

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    well... hmm... hard to say you know, neither of us can, but.... wow. Yeah.. I know what you mean. Wow... getting late and we've got to leave tomorrow. Off to beddeth I am.
     
  6. SurfhipE

    SurfhipE Senior Member

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    Heh, thanks for sharing that story, makes me feel better that I'm not the ONLY one because that sounds JUST like something that he would do. I dunno....it's SO weird, one moment I'm completley infatuated with him, the next, oh I dunno......................damn teenage emotions! lol.
     
  7. water_dreamer

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    aww you poor girl! i know EXACTLY how you feel...i went through the same thing a couple of months ago and now im happy to say im completly over it(him) it would suck he would totally lead me on and I'd totally think he was into me but then he starts dating this chick...even worse we're really good friends

    dont let it bring you down
     
  8. Orsino2

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    Old man lying
    by the side of the road
    With the lorries rolling by,
    Blue moon sinking
    from the weight of the load
    And the building scrape the sky,
    Cold wind ripping
    down the allay at dawn
    And the morning paper flies,
    Dead man lying
    by the side of the road
    With the daylight in his eyes.

    Don't let it bring you down
    It's only castles burning,
    Find someone who's turning
    And you will come around.

    Blind man running
    through the light
    of the night
    With an answer in his hand,
    Come on down
    to the river of sight
    And you can really understand,
    Red lights flashing
    through the window
    in the rain,
    Can you hear the sirens moan?
    White cane lying
    in a gutter in the lane,
    If you're walking home alone.

    Don't let it bring you down
    It's only castles burning,
    Just find someone who's turning
    And you will come around.

    Don't let it bring you down
    It's only castles burning,
    Just find someone who's turning
    And you will come around.
     
  9. moon_flower

    moon_flower Banned

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    If you like someone, tell them. Under any consequences, at least you can say you attempted a relationship with him or her. If it's bumming you out, then you know it's worth your time to TRY.
     
  10. VanAstral

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    I dunno if it's the worst feeling... when two 220lb. hockey players beat the crap outta me (twice) I felt pretty bad for a while. Big problem was, since I was wearing goalie pads, the beating focused on my head... I kept hoping they would distribute their punches, try some body shots, kidneys, but they knew what they were doing, they weren't about to waste precious energy smackin' my salty-scented, protective Kohos.
    There's always someone better. Be forward, then move on while you're still young... should be wasting your energy on crazy sex romps with friends who don't cause such frustration.
     
  11. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    lmao! great advice!
     
  12. Orsino2

    Orsino2 Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Depends on what you define as important... some things mean more to other people than they mean to yourself.
     
  13. SurfhipE

    SurfhipE Senior Member

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    heh, thanks orsino for sticking up for me...yeah, I think it's pretty important if it's getting me down. Orsino, omg I was SOOO happy you put that song on there! I used to listen to it all the time, I love it! Do you remember who it's by?
     
  14. Fractual_

    Fractual_ cosmos factory

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    just curious... what have You thought about thats important lately?
     
  15. sitareric

    sitareric Banned

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    Be like.. hey i like you, your peachy keen to my heart.. now let us run to the hills!!! thats how i get the chicks.. might work for you
     
  16. FunkyPhreshMama

    FunkyPhreshMama Visitor

    don't let it get you down, and definately don't let it ruin the friendship you already have. I had a crush on a friend who I was unsure if he liked me back or not and I wrote him a note and that fucker quit talking to me for a few weeks....... god he coulda just said "i dont like you like that, but we can still hang out" Boys are weird!!
     
  17. SurfhipE

    SurfhipE Senior Member

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    yeah, most of the times boys are WAY hard to figure out! Yeah, I think I may tell him. It's weird, in the day he doesn't talk to me at ALL, and if I IM him he's very vague and takes a while for him to anser, and then, at night he talks to me a lot...it's weird, and annoying.
    lol, 'lets run to the hills' haha i LOVE THAT! :) your funny :)
     
  18. water_dreamer

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    lol you must be quite the stud
     
  19. Orsino2

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    And what may those priorities exactly be? Because surely I don't know. If she wants to, let her. It's not hurting anyone and for the most part she'd only be doing good for herself, either way, if her priorities were straight than she'd still be doing good for herself... I say that time solves all answers. If they don't, they don't, you know, it's not going to hurt anyone and it really doesn't matter, does it. Yes, some people need to get their priorities straight... but it isn't such a large matter in this case.

    And, by the way, the song is Don't Let It Bring You Down by Neil Young... I can't exactly remember what album it is off... I know it's track seven, and if I'm correct, it's on the After The Goldrush album. I've always been addicted... I have every Neil Young album and almost all of CSN/CSNY's stuff and Crosby/Nash and the Stills Young band.. CPR... David Crosby.. a lot of their solo work... Oh, I almost forgot, I have David's '73 Martin D-35 acoustic/electric... complete with a light stain where he ate a McRib sandwich off of it. I remember the first time I ever heard anything by them... it was either a solo album by Graham Nash... I think it's called... Earth, Water, and Fire (some of those elements... I have it somewhere) either that or it was Buffalo Springfield's Buffalo Springfield Again....I know that because those were the only albums my dad had back then of them... but I swear... it was one of those because my dad first played it when we drove across the US and I was two because he's told me before.... yay front row!!! crosby, stills, and nash August 18th at the verizon wireless amphitheatre, virginia beach!!! excitement!!!
     
  20. SurfhipE

    SurfhipE Senior Member

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    Hey, thanks for sticking up for me Orisino...I'm sorry you think it's so trivial, but, if you really thought that then I guess you really shouldn't be on this thread, huh?


    Man, I love that song! It's so nice to lisiten to...even if it's a kinda sad song it kinda brings you up, just to think of other people who may have it harder than you, "dont let it bring you down, it's only castles burning, find someone who's turning then you will come around" So nice.

    Oh, by the way Torth...why exactly do you think it's so trivial?
     
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