I love a girl that...

Has a boyfriend and doesnt know how I feel about them... but I guess thats like happened a billion times before to other people. I havnt told anyone, so I will put it in here.

 

you know what you gotta do right, bone her and make sure her bf walks in hehehehehe. evil

 

Lust*

 

is that implying that my love is lust? If so... who the fuck are you tell me something like that? You dont know me or what I am thinking, so fuck you mate.

and if thats not about me then, I apologize.

 

I know that feeling :& ....

 

I was in the same situation, but with a guy who had a girlfriend. It was frustrating because we kept becoming better friends and he had no idea how I felt about him. Shockingly though, he ended up leaving her because he had feelings for me and we've been together almost three years...

 

Take Lace and Feet's lead.

NatureFreak412, if you love this girl then respect that she is in a relationship with someone else. Do not try to get her to cheat on him. Do not let her cheat on him even if she is begging you. That will make you less of a man.

But do not let the fact that she has a boyfriend stand in the way of your relationship with her. You can still be friends and grow a healthy relationship through that avenue.

If you love her then let no humiliation, no desire, no callous jealousy stand in the way of your friendship with her. Else you lose her in haste.

 

Thanks for all the advice.

There is no way I would get her to cheat on him. I wouldnt want her doing that to me. We might go somewhere tomorrow night, but just as friends of course.

 

If I was you, I would tell her.

 

Wow that was a load of crap...

 

I agree tell or get over it, why do you think you love her nature freak?

 

I'll have to disagree, that tactic worked very well for me

 

yeah it did..

 

dont tell her you love her. you will ruin your chances

 

I agree with you. You may wait to get closer and after that you may tell her if you feel that she loves you too.

Anyway, I am in a similar situation, but with a boy. We are friends and he has a girlfriend. I hope that he will love me too some day. It's very fucked up, but here I read that my dream may come true one day(thanks Lace and Feet). But thare is a little( well mabue not so little) problem because he lives in another city, so we contact throuh mail, but the good thing in all of this is tha his girlfriend lives in another country.

 

I'm almost in the same situation as you, so I know how you feel; the only difference is, I love a guy who is attracted to another man....try that one one; lol

 

Well I told her that I did feel something from her(i took stonerbills advice and didnt tell her that I loved her)

And she said she had felt a connection between us since the day we met, and she thought that if things had worked out different then we would probably be together.

and she said she was glad that I told her. I told her that I didtn want it to effect our friendship or her relationship with that other guy(which is slowly falling apart) and she said it didnt. Nothing has been said about it since. but we still talk like it never happened.

 

dumb dumb dumb.

You fucked it up.

 

well, at least that worked out better than others' expectations. I have fallen for many guys who have girlfriends. It's sad, truly, because it makes me want to hate those girls without even knowing them.

 

The same thing sort of happened to me. Telling someone you love them if they don't love you makes you look vulnerable and puts them in a position of power, which is awkward. How strong is the relationship she has with the guy?