well me and this gurl had been going aout for over 5 months, and I really really loved her. she is moving and said we are goinng to have to break up. I have been really sad with all this but ive been keeping it hiddien, but today I smoked my first join in 2 months, and I was listeining to bob marley and stand alone came on, and i just started crying. I love her so much, I still do and I dont want our relationship to end. Sshe said that we are still going to be good friends, and I am okay with that, but i guess my question is how do I get over her? I've been very sad for since early june, but its now coming out. and it really hurts. what can I do?
that's really sad...I know that painful feeling, believe me. Time is the only way to heal your heart. After all, it's better to have loved than not loved at all. Give yourself sometime, enjoy each moment you spend with her and let her know how much you care. she'll always remember you. hope you are well.
I know exactly how your feeling right now. I'm going through the same thing right now basically except he's moving away just as we're really getting to know eachother so much more and on such a deeper level then before. All I can say is it really sucks but it'll get better soon and you never know, if it was meant to be you guys could be together in the future. Anything is possible... Good luck with it all! ~PEACE
just give it time..it will get better. Think of all her bad qualities and try not to think about her .. i know its hard
hey man, I'm so sorry to hear that. I know how much it sucks to lose someone you care about. I'm sure it was for the best though since she is moving. long distance relationships are so hard to maintain. maybe you could try finding some new things to do to keep yourself occupied so you aren't thinkin about it as much. I know it's hard as hell but just try to be patient and let time heal your wounds. from your posts and everything you seem like a great guy and i'm sure there are many other gals out there who would love to get to know ya when you are ready to move on. in the meantime go smoke a bowl and go for a hike or something find something else peaceful to do... it always works for me when i'm feelin down
well look on the bright side, mary jane is still there for you. but naw man i know what it's like hang in there it will get better. Life is just like that, some say you can't trully realise the good till you been threw the bad... p3@c3
Obviously I don't know you. I was just trying to shake you out of your funk. I hope you have a life of light and love. Peace.
Trust me mate, most people will know what your going through right now. I won't lie to you, it will take time! It will vary depending on what you two had been through and how much time you spend together etc. But i can see there will become a time when you will find someone else and feel the same way again. Deep down you will still have a place in your heart for your ex, but still theres places left for others! And from what i can see, your 16, approaching 17, so will be able to start driving soon, and when you do, then you can go up and visit her every now and then just to settle your mind. I wish you the best of luck mate and take care of yourself, dont do anything stupid and just remember of the good times you had and thats what should cheer you up. If you need anyone to talk to just get in contact, if not, then best of luck!
Time will wound all scars...Just stay positive about life and the things around you...go out with your friends and have a good time, enjoy the ride...love will always get you sometime, just try to deal with it the best you can and put a smile on your face, because once you do that, i promise you will start feeling better...you are only 16...and i can tell you i was in love at 15 for my first time...it took a few months but eventually the pain went away and we remained friends...just keep on keeping on
i can emphisise, my boyfreind of 2 years left me because the whole college thing and i went absolutly insane (as in anything that reminded me of him caused me to scream at the top of my lungs and cry uncontrollably) so i know how you feel a month later (we were still talking) and he told me that he could'nt live without me, now that we almost lost eachother we are so much more close and we found a way to MAKE it work. just don't let her forget about you, even though it hurts, freindship is better then nothing-it may give you a chance with her in the future. if its ment to be she'll come back...if it is'nt then it will be ok, you are 16, go out and live life, you'll find someone just as wonderful if not more so (its very possible). getting tied down with one person long distance so young sucks....*shrug* i hope i'm not makeing this worse... hang in there.. good luck my freind
well, i feel so much better now. i got to hang out with her these last 2 days, and yea i was happy when i was with her, but she sure changed. this last week she has become a major religion freak, so i figure it will be alot easier to get over her. hmm its weird, i have some hurting feelings left, but for the most part im happier than i was.
Bob Marley 'Stand alone'? that song can damn near make anybody cry, if your already depressed weed will only amplify those effects, and stand alone comes on your radio... thats harsh... I cant even listen to that song sometimes... Props for payin homage to rasta tho... i kno this thread is like 5 years old but hope everything worked out for u my dude.
