to do or not to do, that is the question.

About a month ago I had a dream about a co-worker of mine. I didn't remember much of the dream but just that he came onto me. Apparently the dream was a little bit foretelling as that day he "jokingly" kissed my neck.

I began to play with his flirtatious gestures as most of it stayed verbal. Flirting with him became fun and certainly boosted my ego. Only thing is, now I'm imagining what it'd be like if he touched me. Normally, I end up going for guys that are 1 or 2 years younger then me but he is 27 years older then me.

Normally, I wouldn't have an issue with the age as long as I was attracted to him but it is strange to me. I work for my mom. I live in the apartment directly across from hers. And she also works out of her home. I don't have much privacy and it bothers me that other people might know. The other thing is that he's on the sex offender public registry. I don't know what the story is but he's never been aggressive towards me yet I've given him every reason to believe I'd allow his advances. And thinking about the fact that he might be rough with me turns me on.

But then knowing that about myself scares me and I end up shying away. I have such conflicted feelings keeping me from really deciding what to do.

Any advice would help.

 

This has "bad ending" all over it... the potential for him to harm you is there, but his past trouble may be a case where he tried something with a 17 year old or something which to me is a touchy subject and he really shouldn't be treated as a criminal for it. My biggest concern is that he may have dangerous tendencies. Any way you could find out what happened with him?

Beyond that, wow... I'd go for it. Thinking long term, would he be the type to fall for you and make for a messy situation if/when you were ready to move on? Could you tell him you don't want anything long term and would he be ok with that?

I guess I really need to know him before I gave any advice...

Just be careful.

 

Hi Weeble,

My only advice is be careful.

We don't want any harm comming to our Weeble!

We'd miss ya tons.

 

I dunno. It's just one case so it might have been just the situation. If it had been more then one case I would have stayed away. Gross sexual assault and unlawful sexual contact. He's had many chances to be agressive with me and hasn't and I've teased him like crazy (Yeah, I think bending over the hood of his car said it all). I don't know how I could find out unless I asked him. I don't know how he would react to it. I'm not really even intimidated by him and a lot of men put me off and intimidate me. Especially older men.

I just know that this subject has me wet most of the day and I don't have enough time to masturbate as much as the thought of it has turned me on. I need to subdue the hormones somehow.

 

I bet he got drunk and made a pass at some uppity girl who wanted no part of it in public...

hmmm...

If you are THAT wound up about him, I say ask him to dinner or a movie or something public, and see where this leads. I'd be very flattered, and feel very excited at the prospect. Just be careful. Emotion can be a difficult thing to control. Just be clear with him what you want.

You're so sexual... make his day, Weeble!

 

I don't think a relationship would work, actually. I don't have any feelings for him. I'm just really turned on by him. I'd let him know I was only after sex.

He has issues with my piercings. He finds some of them strange (particularly the two newest rings in my lip). Once he grabbed me around the waist and acted like he was going to kiss me and then just said "I couldn't kiss you because of that metal in your face." He keeps asking me what it's like and I feel that one of these days I should tell him I'm going to kiss him to shut him up if he doesn't stop asking what it's like. See where he goes with it.

He also says stuff like "standards, boundries" when I'm working on turning him on. He keeps telling me about his daughters which are my age. I think he feels slightly guilty because I'm so young.

 

Then if you go to him in private and tell him you want sex and only sex, and no one has to know, I think he'd be all over you...

I'm getting turned on just imagining what that would be like... A younger woman comes up to you and offers to rock your world and keep it private.

Yep, I'm there.

Just take the proper precautions. I know you will, but I just have to put that out there... heh.

You have to lmk how it goes!

 

I have to admit. I've already masturbated once cause posting about this got me all hot and horny again.

In the last 3 days I have masturbated 12 times.....

 

Wow...

I haven't once in the last three days. I had sex Thursday, and have been home alone since, but haven't gone there. I need my baby here to get busy.

Reading about all of this is like extended mental foreplay though, and it will work out nicely tonight when she comes home to daddy...

 

Yeah, well I haven't had sex in a month and a hand is really not the same. Especially having been single for 28 months on top of that. It takes more to keep me sexually satisfied. I'm a nympho but not slutty and that makes it hard when you are single for this long.

 

Well, interesting new twist on this whole thing. I ended up working with him today and we had one too many people out on the road. Him and I ended up double breaking, which means he breaks one person, I break the second and then we take a break. Lots of time to talk. I kinda was a little more forward and a few times he seemed like he was trying to get away from me (resisting temptation?).

We got to talking and he let me know that I would be breaking a standard of his. 35+ apparently. He hinted that he could always change his mind. Here's the twist, I now have a room for rent since my old roommate moved out. He might move in. I'm not sure if he's serious or not but this could be the biginning of some interesting situations.

 

I think you should shoot a reality show if he moves in...

 

Think I could make some good money off it? Man the unrated version of the show would seem like a whole new ballgame.

I told him that most guys run away from me because I'm too adventurous. He was curious and so I kinda told him that I have a thing for exploring guys rear ends... lmao.. he told me that there is hope for me yet.

The cute thing that he said was "Sweetheart, I would have no problem making love to you." He kinda sighed and then explained about his 35+ rule that he has set for himself.

 

Tell him you'll be 35 one day, so you might as well get started now...

 

Well, one of these days he's going to ask me what's got me all frustrated and I'm going to tell him, "You know what! I'm horny all the time and it's your fault." Right now I'm not saying half the things on my mind, but one of these days it'll be too much for me.

 

Just burst all over him Weeble!!!!

Grrrrrrowwwwllllll!