What is SEX?

Funny after Clinton we found out that Oral is not sex.
According to many young people today Oral is not sex.
People who get caught cheating will ALWAYS tell you ORAL don't count.
So is this true? Oral no longer counts as Sex?
Does that mean getting a blow job has gotten to the level of just shaking hands? Or a greeting?

also let's not forget Phone and or Cyber Sex? Does that Count?
I guess not.
Like is it OK for your partner to be getting off online all night and day with everyone.

 

IMO - Anything done online is masturbation. What is the difference between an adult website, and a person you hardly know? As long as you don't cross the line and try actually hooking up with the person. As for how teens see sex these days... wow a few years ago my sister in law was a senior and some of the stories she'd tell... Most of the girls in her class claimed to be virgins, yet they have had and given oral, and some woud do anal strictly claiming that until the hymen was broken they were still virgins. I disagree with that. If two people get together and get physical, that is cheating in my book as well.

I also don't mind if my partner uses the PC as a masturbation aid, but if she is going there when I am readily available, then we have a problem. If she were home alone and needed it, that's a cool solution to me.

 

um.. we found out from Clinton that oral isn't sex? I didnt realize he taught us that. But alright.

Yes its a form of sex. I dont know if I'd call it cheating or not. Its different. meh.

 

If you walked in and caught young lil ryder with her laying on your dinner table and her head leaned back with my cock stuffed down her throat....what would you call it!

This is just a simple reply to your question. Think about what you ask....

 

does that also mean that i can just suck some guys cock in a restaurant without being arrested cuz it's not sex?










damn you should've told me tis earlier wiz...


i could've had such a good excuse...

 

Oral sex is sex. Duh, oral "sex"! It would be cheating.

 

On a side note, could I take you to lunch sometime?

 

I totally agree with you on all of the above.
I had a friend and her daughter was out giving oral all over town but was saying she was keeping it for when she got married.
Maybe it's becasue they live in a world where many already have stds?

 

Ya know Man-I really have no way of responding to what you just wrote. But ask you....
Are you OK? Did you take your Meds?

 

Sex is something I wish I got alot more of

 

sure!!!

 

yes, oral sex is sex. so is anal sex

cyber sex and phone sex, not so much... more like mutual masturbation. Counts as cheating (unless you've talked it out as being ok with your partner) but doesn't count as sex sex

 

Interesting... Do you find it cheating if you masturbate to porn? Or even to a person on a web cam site? Is it not cheating if you don't know the person but it is cheating if you do?

 

mm, I think it's cheating if you're interacting with the person. I don't use webcam sites, so... I think it's one of those things that has to be worked out in the relationship. I have no problem with porn, the webcam thing depends. I mean, you're paying the person to do what you tell them, right? That's sort of an iffy issue for me, depends a lot on who I'm with. Some rules need to be able to bend, n'est pas?

 

Makes sense. I've never been on a webcam site myself, I'm just going by what I have gathered on the subject. Most people consider it impersonal and are not threatened by a mate going there. But this begs the question... if you go to a strip club and get a lap dance... is that cheating? You are definitely interacting sexually there...

I'm just glad I don't have to sort these things out. The worst I do is flirt, I avoid bars, and the most pornographic material I see I come across in these forums. Just not my thing. But it raises some interesting questions.

 

I enjoy porn from time to time, probably that's why I dont' ahve a problem with it. It's just a masturbatory aid, like a vibrator

strip clubs are ok. lap dances, well, only if I've either agreed to it or I'm there (and have agreed to it, lol). That's getting too personal to me, whereas staring at mostly naked chicks while drinking with a bunch of buddies isn't too big a deal. male bonding and all. When the chick is writhign all over you though, that's a bit too much for me.

and yeah, I've never had to lay out rules like this with a guy before, it's just sort of how I feel on the topics.

 

I consider both Oral and Anal Sex to be just that: sex. They are also both cheating, in my opinion.

Phone sex and cyber sex....it's all up to what you and your partner decide. It's mutual maturbation, not sex, but make sure the communication is there before you do it and then try to use that defense! LoL. It's not my bag, baby! I'd rather watch porn than a computer moniter, but I wouldn't get bent out of shape about it, so long as it wasn't a constant thing and started to produce wear and tear and strained relations in a partnership.

 

Dream on, Fuckstick. Maybe you could call your fat neighbor over and she'll toss you a couple seeds?

Then again, coming from someone who looks for sex in a VIP room with a wadded up $50 (for the REALLY classy ones, right?) I would expect something so infantile and immature. Go build Lego houses in the Georgia swamps.

By the way, say 'hi' to all the other jerk-offs on my Ignore List.

 

new favorite thing to say

 

I know a couple and he has to travel a lot all over the USA. His wife had found out from his Credit Card slips he was watching porn when he was on the road.
Her response? She had him take home Videos of them both having some kinky sex and made him take it on the road with him and then they would also have phone sex.
I thought that was a great way for a couple to handle it and also make their sex life spicy!