Ain't THIS guy a piece of work?

He's not a cop. He's a screw.

 

Oh, a prision guard....

Would be bad for him if he ended up in jail, ya think? hehe

 

real bad

 

IG, I just read your post to the guy. It cracked me up, and I'm and looking forward to his response. ^^

 

Death threats and personal attacks against me and my wife. We know each other, as I said.

 

Man that's real sick ..

 

Just a further example of the truism: "they make you get a license to have a dog but they'll let any old asshole have a kid".

 

The legalitys of the search etc. are interesting, but my first question was, if he is so protective of his 14 year old daughter, why is he letting her date a 17 yr. old? He sounds more like a bully than an over concerned father.

A concerned father would not allow her to go on a car date. This dude is out to scare the young man.

 

I don't know what to think about this.

 

Wow, you're being far more generous than my reaction was!!! You actually think she'll stick around till she's 18?

And so what if she does... He's teaching her to let a man completely control every aspect of her life... So what are the chances she'll wind up marrying some asshole who is equally controlling, and quite possibly beats the crap out of her?

 

Is it because when he was a lad he'd ravage anything with a skirt? Or is this all an elaborate scheme that he has designed to fulfill his fantasy of groping a teenaged boy in the woods? Think about it. I think he's a pervert and he's just trying to act macho to cover it up.

 

I said comment, not troll them!

They've reacted as if I sent in the guys at rotten.com!

 

Well, they've closed THEIR thread, but I'm sure they're watching this one, so one last comment on this.

Well, two.

1) There's a difference between "feel free to comment" which is one of those free speech type things and "ATTACK!!!!!!" - there's also a difference between commenting on an issue, and logging in here just to call people here "fags" unquote. If anyone on here logged on there just to insult or troll give me a username.

2) If Mr .45ACP cared about his daughter getting pregnant, he'd stick her on the pill or the patch and be done with it. But this is about nobody messing with Rick's property, or despoiling his chattel. He'll never admit it, but he's a hijab away from being a Taleban father, with serious and deeply rooted misogyny.

I raised this issue of this guy HERE because I get accused of being a misogynist. But let me tell you, that kind of trip is pure distrust and hatred of women. Simply not being able to relate has NOTHING on this kind of mentality.

Well, I'm sure the "date" will go as Mr. .45ACP intends. He'll bully and intimidate a 17year old (whooooo, big man!) , and wave his genitals at the local high school to show THEM who's boss.

And if he looks back on his own childhood he can see how well THAT worked.

Well, I've said my bit. Yes, I have a daughter, and her education started very shortly after birth. My job is as a parent, which is a teacher and nurturer. Being a drill sergeant, warden and quartermaster is a piss-poor substitute.

Here endeth MY lesson, to all.

 

You're the closest thing we've got to a troll around here, IG .....Kidding, kidding!

This guy's probably too busy power-trippin on his daughter's boyfriend to make his way over here. I'm sure he thinks feeling-up and intimidating a young boy is much more fun than a woman's forum (although you'll get in less trouble here than you will with a minor in the woods...). hehe

 

wow... im so glad i have the parents that i do. that guy is phsyco! i thought my friends dad was bad... well not until i read this. if i was that guy i would be so scared. and i hope this girl is worth it man geeesh ahaha peace~

 

Wow.. what a mean bastard!!!..
If I was that girl, I would probably run away w/ that skaterboy,
and fuck him like a wild animal... Just in spite of my step dad..

Shes going to hate hate HATE him,
She'll probably just start rebeling against him,
and her mother, pretty damn quick.

 

Truth told, there's a difference between overprotecting your kid because you love them- I don't know any parents who aren't at least a little guilty of that sometimes- and mistreating your kid (and her friends) because you love your authority. You might note that he spent more time bragging about scaring some poor boy and controlling her than talking about how much he loves his stepdaughter.

I think the mom should come out and say "Screw you, I'm her real mother, I outrank you, and will until you start really loving my kid." and let her date in peace.

PS- I didn't post in that thread at all, and didn't even see it until today. The people who did were well meaning, and didn't intend it to end up so badly. But frankly, I don't care, either. That guy needed someone to tell him he wasn't G-d's gift to parenting, because the people there sure as hell weren't going to.

 

Wow, I always joked about being a gun-toting momma when my kids got to be that age, but this guy is really ridiculous! It's been my experience that trust and an open dialogue between parent and child helps to keep the child innocent longer than fear and isolation.

My mother explained sex to me when I was 2 and a half. I had asked where babies come from, so she explained. I was old enough to handle it, since I'd asked the question. As I got older, she explained more about the rights, wrongs, and socially acceptable opinions on sex and sexuality. In short, she explained sex so thoroughly, why I felt I needed it, why not to have it, the processes surrounding it, that I was bored with the notion.

Add to that the fact that my mom never lied to be, withheld from me a privilege that every other child had, or attempted to make me feel less than trustworthy, she had a better, more respectful, completely honest daughter. True, I didn't have a curfew at 14 years old. However, I called her when I arrived somewhere, before I left that place to tell her where I was going next and how long it'd be til I arrived, who was there, what was going on, and what I planned to partake in (which was usually nothing). I also would recite every time that if I knew that everyone there with me was under the influence, I would call her and she would come and get me or I would stay the night.
Guess what happened? Did I go crazy with freedom? Did I have sex because I could? Take drugs? Hell no. Nothing was interesting, nothing was rebellious. My form of rebellion was to spend as much time in school activities as I could. Why? Because mom didn't see the value in some of them, or bitched because of the amount of time/money they took.

Everyone today underestimates children and their understanding of the world and interpersonal dynamics. I'm sure most children if given more respect, more education, and more open non-critical dialogue would have the same experiences in their teens as I had.

 

That father has some serious issue...I feel sorry for the daughter and the guy she wants to go out with. He may think, in a weird twisted way, that he's doing her some gigantic favour, but in the end all he's doing is encourage her to sneak out at night and have sex in the forest. I say she's barefoot and pregnant by 16 and doesn't even know who the father is. Parents like that piss me right off.

 

If i had dad like this, i would do exactly what i want, noone will sit on my sholders and tell me what to do.. i get my lessons from life itself and i will cooperate with peoples experiences..
being teenager, it is the worse thing to do - to say whatever yer daugther should do and should not to do.
if this dad there thinks he is cool and he has the right to do it then, PLEASE gimme a break, this is not normal anymore