Hot and cold

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it too me ages to write that

 

Done!

 

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I won't bother buying a new hat for the wedding then....

Stop twatting about guys.....or it looks like yer'll be lucky to even salvage a friendship outa this......

 

cheers oz.
thanks for caring

 

actually i do care dude, i care enough that i'd rather see you guys get along than fighting and bitching...

 

Well then I guess I'll never be a man, cause I love my baby more with every day that goes by...

But yeah tis true, you gotta talk... Whenever there's something you don't like, or feel umcomfortable aobut you gotta say it or it's never gonna work out

Haha, when you said that I just had to listen to that song I love it

 

Oz I think Paul & I have had an intense connection....it spilled out here & I guess only good stuff can come of that....

Healing sometimes brings up shit loads of refelections....Im in no way pointing the finger & the post was not ment to 'be little' anyone....I didnt know anyone knew him here as Paul & when I wrote it I thought it would be repiled to in the same way as it started out.....

a slanging match wasnt the idea....altho i guess it was more fool me for taking the question to be answered in my truth.....

if we do make it thru this then I truely hope we shall be the best of mates with no crap to come out in the future......wow that would be so worth all this embarassment....

 

That's properly right on what Iron Goth said and it's good you are honest with yourself that you might be too.
I remember last year saying jezzz EVERYONE in my life is Bi Polar. LOL Then I said hummm so I must be too?
Most of the time we pick ourselves in who we get involved with in relationships and we all just mirror one another. When we get upset with anyone it's pretty much they are pushing OUR BUTTONS.
Also, all relationships purposes are the people in them learning thru our interaction with each other. So you are both teaching one another about who you both are.
Communication is the most important part too.
Sit him down and just express how you feel. If you can do that with him and he is open to it....your on a roll. Peace