Usually you hear about the guy making love to the woman and he is feeling great, but she isnt getting off.......weelllllllll.......man the last time i had sex i fucked her for 6 hours and she got off a few times and i never did...i mean i came about 3 times, but i didnt really get off.....the only time i do is if i get head...that feels great, but i always end up with girlfriends who dont give head......you think the reason i dont get off much is jsut because i am wearing a condom?
Hmmmm...could be the rubber. I know. every dude says it and it sounds so cliche...but I really can't feel things like I want to with a condom on. it doesn't help that they're not real handy and sometimes fucking difficult to get on...all without losing your erection. If I have, say 6 rubbers...at least three of them are wasted trying to put them on, or they get flung around the fucking room because I lost my wood trying to get it on. 6 hours? I know I lose sensation if I jerk off or fuck too long...maybe you just need to get a real quick one in and see if you have the same result.
is there some kind of a condom that is supposed to make you feel it more? i havent tried a bunch of different kinds all i do is get whatever is there and has spermicide in it.....they are uncomfortable and really suck.
6 hours, sounds like you're trying too hard. Condoms are only good for people who cum no matter how good the stimulation is. Also i think the story about the girl not getting off is just as true for guys as it is girls, except guys dont complain because they are happy with any sex at all. I can make a girl cum pretty easily, but a lot of girls i know wouldn't know what to do with a cock.
yeah i found at first it was a bit of a turn off for some reason...it was a little frustration coz it really buggered stuff up and u lose the tension and romance if u have to concentrate to not lose your erection lol I found after a while i got used to it, the trick for me was to not be thinking about it, to be thinking about her and whats going to happen, how its going to feel, and looking into her eyes to see her love and expectation. After that I didnt have a problem, maybe itd still go a little bit, but not so much that it would effect putting it on, or come straight back again, no pun intended, when things started. I think its more psychological than anything.
An ex of mine used to have a real difficult time with putting condoms on. As soon as he got the condom open and on, he was soft. So I solved that quickly by putting the condom on him myself. That worked wonders and actually made him harder.
