Two love thats may not like eachother

So here goes, as I embrake as a hopeless internet junkie on another internet love we come to a crossroads. Now don't bitch and argue on wether internet relationships work this is a different problem. See I have a very great love affair with psychedelics and the concept of exploring the mind as such (don't debate wether my love for these drugs is good or not either). My problem is I don't think we see eye to eye on this issue she smoke cannabis but see's stronger things as dangerous. Now I am not asking her to be a tripping buddy (it would be pretty cool though) but I dunno how to deal with this, if she thinks these are dangerous then what d I do. Oh I know I am not in the position to be asking alot but could we try and not give answers like "leave her" unless you have something to back it up with. thanks so much

 

Does it bother you that she may not agree with your lifestyle? If you can't deal with the fact that she might bitch about what you choose to do, you'll end up fighting about it and the relationship won't work. Likewise, if she can't deal with the fact that despite her opinion, you're going to keep living your life your way, it won't work. Unless one of you is willing to give up what you see as right, the only way it can work is for you to agree to disagree on the subject, and stick to it. Good luck.

 

Well said - could not add a word to that.

 

i disagree, its very easily possible to explain eachothers pssitions, as well as exploring the pro & con facts & seek a greater mutual understanding
i can see both sides being that i did alot of psychodelics in the past, b but dont any more..& have seen many benifit from them & others hurt by them
you say yu have a love affair with them? perhaps you do too much for your own good//
seek a compromise, & only do them occasionaly at best & with respect & only in certain situations?
and at the samre time try to dispell her belief that its dangerous..
truthfuly, it can be..at times..but can also be safe
all depends on you respecting it..& not just using it for fun or escape..& also knowing when to say..ok..i need a break from it for awhile
i reached that point many years ago..& my break from it never ended...just dont need it anymore & it stopped giving & started taking way..

my point is u can reach a mutual respect & understanding so it wont have to become an issue

 

Well I spoke with her, man did that not go well.